Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
Attention has already been called to his impressionability to religious
influences during the early part of this period through an appeal based
in intellectualism (as distinguished from the emotionalism of the
preceding period), to which the ethical concepts now being formed are
closely related.
Another distinguishing trait is the evolution of his sociological
consciousness through which he recognizes himself as a unit in the
social economy, with all its attendant rights and duties. He discards
the selfishness and individualism of an earlier era and adopts the
obligations of altruism. His desire to be of genuine service to his
fellow man seeks expression first in visionary plans to reform the
world, followed afterward by practical work in help for others, such
as leadership in boys’ clubs, secretarial duties or teaching in Sunday
schools, or similar employments of altruistic purport. Government
under processes of law takes on a newer, clearer and more personal
meaning. And with it comes recognition of civic responsibility.
Intellectual storms gather when vague, unassorted, inchoate, and
impossible theories of social and political reform--long since tried
and discarded--loom big on his horizon and are eagerly seized upon and
advocated as original discoveries. His opinions are expressed with
a dogmatism which characterizes the cocksureness of youth. Verbal
limitations inspired by sound judgment and broad experience, as well
as the cautious phraseology of scientific conservatism have no place
in his vocabulary. His theories are all promulgated with an arrogant
assertiveness born of the optimism of inexperience. He is now fairly
bursting with self-importance. But all these manifestations are
important only as indicating his desire to solve the great problems of
life and are the precursors of a sounder judgment which will come with
maturity of intellect and experience.
It is at or near the beginning of this period that the youth looks
down on the younger boy, whom he characterizes as a “kid.” The dislike
and even positive aversion of the older boy for companionship with
the younger has its basis not so much in their differing physical
and mental attainments as in their differing viewpoints caused by
their unequal psychological development. Illustration of this may be
observed in two boys, both of whom are sixteen years of age and of
equal mentality and physique, one of whom has and the other has not
entered the reflective period. Such boys are out of harmony with each
other in every taste, desire, and predilection which is actuated by
psychological impulse, and find a common ground of companionship only
in athletics and classroom studies.
Will power, born during the heroic period, is now stimulated to rapid
growth which culminates during the latter part of the reflective
period. No longer is he a straw borne on every passing wind of
influence, but a human being capable of exercising a moral choice
between two courses of action.
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