Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
From general observation, as well as from the records of our penal
courts, we may deduce the proposition that obedience to statute by
normal men rests largely on their belief in the justice of law and the
reasonableness of the exercise of the authority which is predicated
on such law. Law, in the domain of childhood, is parental command; and
even though the child’s sense of justice may not be as discriminating
as that of the parent, nevertheless it is strong enough and deep enough
to impel him to resist, by evasion, subterfuge, deceit, or other means
at hand, those parental laws which he believes to be founded on mere
caprice or positive injustice. We must promulgate reasonable commands
if we are to expect reasonable compliance with them, and we shall
suffer no loss of dignity by frankly explaining to our children the
reasons which underlie our mandates. Although the child may be unable
at all times to follow our line of reasoning, or to agree wholly with
our conclusions, he will, at any rate, be convinced that our orders do
not emanate from capricious fancy, but have a semblance of justice as
their basis.
Even paternal example is not without its influence on the keenly
observing mind of youth. The seventeen-year-old son of a neighbor was
detected smoking a cigarette the day following the direct injunction of
his father that he should not do so. When reproved by his father for
disobedience, the son retorted: “Well, dad, why don’t you obey the law?
You shot ducks out of season.”
The delinquent children who flow in a steady stream through our
juvenile courts are undisciplined, self-willed, and rebellious against
authority and are governed only by impulse which is as spasmodic as
their conduct is abnormal. Obedience has never found a place in the
poor moral equipment with which they are endowed. Practically every
moral derelict stranded on the human scrap-pile can trace his failure
in life to his disobedience in childhood; and the fault is not wholly
his own but rests largely on the shoulders of parents who failed
to compel obedience in the early years when compulsion was possible
through firm and just regulation.
The boy who is early indoctrinated in obedience becomes plastic
material ready to be shaped, through training, in the stature of a man
of fine moral quality.
CHAPTER VII
THE REPRESSIVE METHOD OF TRAINING
The training of the child should begin as soon as it is able to
comprehend spoken language. A venerable mother who had reared eleven
children and had seen them attain successful and honorable positions
in life was asked the question: “At what time should the training of a
child begin?” Her answer was: “In the cradle.” And, it is needless to
add, it should be continued to maturity. There are, broadly speaking,
two general plans of training which may be termed respectively the
repressive method and the suggestive method.
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