Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
Objection is sometimes made that sports are a non-productive form of
energy--a waste of time and strength which might be employed in manual
training or in work of economic value capable of being measured in
terms of money. It is true that the athletics and games of boys have
no money value, nor are they designed for such purpose, but the energy
expended is not wasted. On the contrary, it is highly productive of
both physical and moral growth. It is productive of strong bodies,
clear eyes, speed, agility, strength, quick thinking, sound judgment,
a sense of fair play, self-confidence, control of temper, coördination
of brain and muscle, and respect for the rights of others. Their
value is educational and cultural--a means to an end and not the end
itself. The boy who by reason of financial necessity is required to
become a breadwinner is deprived not only of a large part of the joys
of boyhood which should be his as a matter of right, but of many
physical activities, educational in their effect, which would otherwise
train and equip him both mentally and physically for service in
adult vocations and good citizenship. The repression of play and its
attendant noise is always inspired by motives of consideration for the
convenience of the adult and never by a thought of its effect on the
boy himself.
The repressive method of training, alone, is ineffective at any age,
but if it is used sparingly in early childhood and then only when
combined with suggestions and directions for activities to replace
those prohibited it produces good results. As the child grows in years
the positive, constructive, suggestive method of training should be
employed exclusively.
Quite as pernicious as the repressive method is the passive system of
training--in effect no training at all--which permits the boy to have
his own way in everything. It is the resource of the indulgent and
lazy parent who seeks the line of least resistance. When combined with
a lavish supply of money, its effects are usually ruinous. I know a boy
now fifteen years of age, a typical spoiled son of a wealthy father.
At our first meeting, a year ago, the sartorial display on his stunted
physique was loud and elaborate and was the work, he volunteered, of
his father’s tailor. He was decorated with a gold watch and chain, an
elaborate scarf pin and two finger rings conspicuous for their size. He
immediately began to boast to the little group of boys who surrounded
him of the cost and superiority of his clothes, his rifle, his canoe
and his pony. At first, the group looked on in mingled awe and
admiration. Then their keen insight and sense of humor were betrayed
in the knowing winks and nods which they exchanged, followed by a
volley of questions designed to hold him up to ridicule, until the poor
little sham of a boy, unable to bear their raillery longer, finally
blurted out in an attempt to silence his inquisitors, “My father’s got
more money than all of your fathers put together.”
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