Our critic has not seen that this avidity for pleasure is a natural
ebullition which, flaring up naturally, within a few years as naturally
subsides. It goes, too, without that ennui of over-stimulation; and
the fact that it has been will relieve us of the rising generation
from feeling that envy which invariably creeps into the tone of the
passing generation when they say, “We did not go such a pace when we
were young.” After this period of pleasure has begun to subside, there
ensues for those who have not been prematurely forced into industry, a
strange longing for independence. This feeling is most striking among
the girls of the rising generation, and crops up in the most unexpected
places, in families in the easiest circumstances, where to the
preceding generation the idea of caring to do anything except stay at
home and get married, if possible, would have been inconceivable. They
want somehow to feel that they are standing on their own feet. Like
their brothers, they begin to chafe under the tutelage, nominal though
it is, of the home. As a result, these daughters of the comfortable
classes go into trained nursing, an occupation which twenty years ago
was deemed hardly respectable; or study music, or do settlement work,
or even public-school teaching. Of course, girls who have had to earn
their own living have long done these things; the significant point is
that the late rapid increase in these professions comes from those who
have a comfortable niche in society all prepared for them. I do not
argue that this proves any superior quality of character on the part of
this generation, but it does at least fail to suggest a desire to lead
lives of ignoble sloth.
The undergraduate feels this spirit, too. He often finds himself
vaguely dissatisfied with what he has acquired, and yet does not
quite know what else would have been better for him. He stands on the
threshold of a career, with a feeling of boundless possibility, and yet
often without a decided bent toward any particular thing. One could do
almost anything were one given the opportunity, and yet, after all,
just what shall one do? Our critics have some very hard things to say
about this attitude. They attribute it to an egotistic philosophy,
imperfectly absorbed. But may it not rather be the result of that
absence of repression in our bringing-up, of that rigid moulding which
made our grandfathers what they were?
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