Youth expresses itself by falling in love. Whether it be art, a girl,
socialism, religion, the sentiment is the same; the youth is swept
away by a flood of love. He has learned to value, and how superlative
and magnificent are his values! The little child hardly seems to love;
indeed, his indifference to grown people, even to his own parents,
is often amazing. He has the simple affection of a young animal, but
how different his cool regard from the passionate flame of youth!
Love is youth’s virtue, and it is wide as well as deep. There is no
tragic antithesis between a youth’s devotion to a cause and his love
for a girl. They are not mutually exclusive, as romanticists often
love to think, but beautifully compatible. They tend to fuse, and they
stimulate and ennoble each other. The first love of youth for anything
is pure and ethereal and disinterested. It is only when thwarted that
love turns sensual, only when mocked that enthusiasm becomes fanatical
or mercenary. Worldly opinion seems to care much more for personal
love than for the love of ideals. Perhaps it is instinctively more
interested in the perpetuation of the race than in its progress. It
gives its suffrage and approval to the love of a youth for a girl, but
it mocks and discredits the enthusiast. It just grudgingly permits
the artist to live, but it piles almost insurmountable obstacles in
the path of the young radical. The course of true love may never run
smooth, but what of the course of true idealism?
The springs that feed this love are found, of course, in hero-worship.
Sexual love is objectified in some charming and appealing girl, love
for ideals in some teacher or seer or the inspiring personality of
a friend. It is in youth that we can speak of real influence. Then
is the soul responsive to currents and ideas. The embargo which kept
the child’s mind immune to theory and opinion and tastes is suddenly
lifted. In childhood, our imitation is confined to the external; we
copy ways of acting, but we are insensitive to the finer nuances of
personality. But in youth we become sensitive to every passing tone
and voice. Youth is the season when, through this sensitiveness, the
deadly pressures get their purchase on the soul; it is also the season
for the most momentous and potent influences for good. In youth, if
there is the possibility that the soul be permanently warped out of
shape, there is also the possibility that it receive the nourishment
that enables it to develop its own robust beauty. It is by hero-worship
that we copy not the externals of personality, as in childhood, but
the inner spirit. We feel ourselves somehow merged with the admired
persons, and we draw from them a new stimulating grace. We find
ourselves in them. It is not yielding to a pressure that would force us
to a type, but a drawing up of ourselves to a higher level, through the
aid of one who possesses all those qualities which have been all along,
we feel, our vague and hitherto unexpressed ideal.
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