We do not feel that
our individualities are being lost, but that they are for the first
time being found. We have discovered in another personality all those
best things for which our hearts have been hungering, and we are simply
helping ourselves to that which is in reality our own. Our hero gives
of himself inexhaustibly, and we take freely and gladly what we need.
It is thus that we stock up with our first store of spiritual values.
It is from the treasury of a great and good personality that we receive
the first confirmation of ourselves. In the hero-personality, we see
our own dim, baby ideals objectified. Their splendor encourages us,
and nerves us for the struggle to make them thoroughly our own.
There is a certain pathos in the fact that parents are so seldom
the heroes from whom the children derive this revelation of their
own personality. It is more often some teacher or older friend or
even a poet or reformer whom the youth has never seen and knows only
through his words and writings. But for this the parents are partly
responsible. They are sufficiently careful about the influences which
play upon their young children. They give care and prayers and tears
to their bringing-up in the years when the children are almost immune
to any except the more obvious mechanical influences, and learn of
ideals and values only in a parrot-like fashion. But when the child
approaches youth, the parent is apt to relax vigilance and, with a cry
of thanksgiving and self-congratulation that the child has been brought
safely through so many perils to the desired haven, to surrender him
to his own devices. Just at the time when he becomes really sensitive
for the first time to spiritual influences, he is deprived of this
closest and warmest influence of the home. But he has not been brought
into a haven, but launched into a heaving and troubled sea. This is
the time when his character lies at stake, and the possibility of his
being a radical, individual force in the world hangs in the balance.
Whether he will become this force depends on the pressures that he is
able to dodge, and on the positive ideals he is able to secure. And
they will depend largely on the heroes he worships, upon his finding
the personalities that seem to contain all the best for which he
yearns. Hero-worship is the best preservative against cheapness of
soul, that besetting sin of modern youth. It directs our attention away
from the light and frothy things of the world, which are wont to claim
so much of youth’s interest, to qualities that are richer and more
satisfying. Yet hero-worship is no mere imitation. We do not simply
adopt new qualities and a new character. We rather impregnate our
hitherto sterile ideals with the creative power of a tested and assured
personality, and give birth to a new reliance and a new faith. Our
heroes anticipate and provide for our doubts and fears, and fortify us
against the sternest assaults of the world. We love our heroes because
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