But this temperance does not mean quite the same thing as the rigid
self-control that used to be preached. The new morality has a more
positive ideal than the rigid mastery which self-control implies. We
are to fix our attention more in giving our good impulses full play
than in checking the bad. The theory is that if one is occupied with
healthy ideas and activities, there will be no room or time for the
expression of the unhealthy ones. Anything that implies an inhibition
or struggle to repress is a draining away into a negative channel of
energy that might make for positive constructive work in the character.
The repressed desires and interests are not killed, but merely checked,
and they persist, with unabated vigor, in struggling to get the upper
hand again. They are little weakened by lying dormant, and lurk warily
below, ready to swarm up again on deck, whenever there is the smallest
lapse of vigilance. But if they are neglected they gradually cease from
troubling, and are killed by oblivion where they could not have been
hurt by forcible repression. The mortification of the flesh seems too
often simply to strengthen its pride.
In the realm of emotion, the dangers of rigid self-control are
particularly evident. There are fashions in emotion as well as in
dress, and it seems to have become the fashion in certain circles
of youth to inhibit any emotional expression of the sincere or
the serious. There is a sort of reign of terrorism which prevents
personal conversation from being carried on upon any plane except one
of flippancy and insincerity. Frankness of expression in regard to
personal feelings and likes and dislikes is tabooed. A strange new
ethics of tact has grown up which makes candor so sacrilegious a
thing that its appearance in a group or between two young people of
the opposite sex creates general havoc and consternation. Young people
who dare to give natural expression to their feelings about each other
or about their ideals and outlook on life find themselves genuinely
unpopular. When this peculiar ethics works at its worst, it gives a
person a pride in concealing his or her feelings on any of the vital
and sincere aspects of life, the interests and admirations and tastes.
But this energy, dammed up thus from expression in its natural way,
overflows in a hysterical admiration for the trivial, and an unhealthy
interest in the mere externals, the “safe” things, of life. Such
self-control dwarfs the spirit; it results only in misunderstandings
and a tragic ignorance of life. It is one of the realest of the vices
of youth, for it is the parent of a host of minor ailments of the
soul. It seems to do little good even to repress hatred and malice.
If repressed, they keep knocking at the door of consciousness, and
poison the virtues that might develop if the soul could only get rid of
its load of spleen. If the character is thickly sown with impersonal
interests and the positive virtues are carefully cultivated, there will
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