To youth it is
middle age that seems trivial and playful. It is after the serious work
of love-making and establishing one’s self in economic independence
is over that one can rest and play. Youth has little time for that
sort of recreation. In middle age, most of the problems have been
solved, the obstacles overcome. There is a slackening of the lines,
a satisfied taking of one’s reward. And to youth this must always
seem a tragedy, that the season of life when the powers are at their
highest should be the season when they are oftener turned to material
than to spiritual ends. Youth has the energy and ideals, but not the
vantage-ground of prestige from which to fight for them. Middle age has
the prestige and the power, but too seldom the will to use it for the
furtherance of its ideals. Youth has the isolation, the independence,
the disinterestedness so that it may attack any foe, but it has not
the reserve force to carry that attack through. Middle age has all the
reserve power necessary, but is handicapped by family obligations, by
business and political ties, so that its power is rarely effective for
social or individual progress.
The supreme virtue of middle age will be, then, to make this difficult
fusion,--to combine devotion to one’s family, to one’s chosen work,
with devotion to the finer idealism and impersonal aims that formed
one’s philosophy of youth. To keep alive through all the twistings
and turnings of life’s road the sense of a larger humanity that needs
spiritual and material succor, of the individual spiritual life of
ideal interests, is a task of virtue that will tax the resources of
any man or woman. Yet here lies the true virtue of middle age,--to use
its splendid powers to enhance the social and individual life round
one, to radiate influence that transforms and elevates. The secret
of such a radiant personality seems to be that one, while mingling
freely in the stress of everyday life, sees all its details in the
light of larger principles, against the background of their social
meaning. In other words, it is a virtue of middle life to be socially
self-conscious. And this spirit is the best protector against the
ravages of the tough material world. Only by this social consciousness
can that toughness be softened. The image of the world the way it ought
to be must never be lost sight of in the picture of the world the way
it is.
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