This conservation of the spirit is even more necessary for the woman
than for the man. The active life of the latter makes it fairly
certain that he, while he may become hard and callous, will at least
retain some sort of grip on the world’s bigger movements. There is
no such certainty for the mother. Indeed, she seems often to take a
real pleasure in voluntarily offering up in sacrifice at the time of
marriage what few ideal interests and tastes she has. The spectacle
of the young mother devoting all her time and strength to her children
and husband, and surrendering all other interests to the interests of
the home, is usually considered inspiring and attractive, especially by
the men. Not so attractive is she thirty years later, when, her family
cares having lapsed and her children scattered, she is left high and
dry in the world. If she then takes a well-earned rest, it seems a
pity that that rest should be so generally futile and uninteresting.
Without interests and tastes, and with no longer any useful function in
society, she is relegated to the most trivial amusements and pursuits.
Idle and vapid, she finds nothing to do but fritter away her time. The
result is a really appalling waste of economic and social energy in
middle age. Now it is the virtue of this season of life to avoid all
this. The woman as well as the man must realize that her home is not
bounded by the walls of the house, that it has wider implications,
leading out into all the interests of the community and the state. That
women of this age have not yet learned to be good mothers and good
citizens at the same time, does not show that it is impossible, but
that it is a virtue that requires more resolution than our morality
has been willing to exhibit. The relish of right and wrong must be a
relish of social right and wrong as well as of individual.
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