As middle age passes on into old age, however, one earns a certain
right of relaxation. If there is no right to let go the sympathy
for the virtues of youth and the conservation of its spirit, there
comes the right to give over some of the aggressive activity. To
youth belongs the practical action. At no other age is there the same
impulse and daring. The virtue of later middle age is to encourage
and support, rather than actively engage. It is true we have never
learned this lesson. We still surrender to semi-old men the authority
to govern us, think for us, act for us. We endow them with spiritual
as well as practical leadership, and allow them to strip youth of
its opportunities and powers. We permit them to rule not only their
own but all the generations. If we could be sure that their rule
meant progress, we could trust them to guide us. But, in these times
at least, it seems to mean nothing so much as a last fight for a
discredited undemocratic philosophy that modern youth are completely
through with. From this point of view one of the virtues of this middle
season of life will be the imaginative understanding of youth’s
purposes and radical ideals. At that age, one no longer needs the same
courage to face the battles of life; they are already most of them
irrevocably won or lost. There is not the same claim of temperance; the
passions and ambitions are relaxed. The sense of justice and democracy
will have become a habit or else they will have been forever lost. Only
the need of wisdom remains,--that unworldly wisdom which mellowing
years can bring, which sees through the disturbance and failure of life
the truth and efficacy of youth’s ideal vision.
Old age is such a triumph that it may almost be justly relieved of any
burden of virtues or duties; it is so unique and beautiful that the
old should be given the perfect freedom of the moral city. So splendid
a victory is old age over the malign forces of disease and weakness
and death that one is tempted to say that its virtue lies simply in
being old. Those virtues of youth which grew out of the crises and
temptations, physical and spiritual, of early life, are no longer
relevant. There may come instead the quieter virtues of contentment
and renunciation. Old people have few crises and few temptations; they
live in the past and not in the future, as youth does. They cannot
be required, therefore, to have that scorn for tradition which is the
virtue of youth. They can keep alive for us the tradition that _is_
vital, and from them we can learn many things.
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