لَقِيَ هِشَامَ بْنَ الْحَكَمِ بَعْضُ الْخَوَارِجِ فَقَالَ يَا هِشَامُ مَا تَقُولُ فِي الْعَجَمِ يَجُوزُ أَنْ يَتَزَوَّجُوا فِي الْعَرَبِ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَالْعَرَبُ يَتَزَوَّجُوا مِنْ قُرَيْشٍ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَقُرَيْشٌ يَتَزَوَّجُ فِي بَنِي هَاشِمٍ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ عَمَّنْ أَخَذْتَ هَذَا قَالَ عَنْ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ سَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ أَ تَتَكَافَأُ دِمَاؤُكُمْ وَ لَا تَتَكَافَأُ فُرُوجُكُمْ قَالَ فَخَرَجَ الْخَارِجِيُّ حَتَّى أَتَى أَبَا عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ( عليه السلام ) فَقَالَ إِنِّي لَقِيتُ هِشَاماً فَسَأَلْتُهُ عَنْ كَذَا فَأَخْبَرَنِي بِكَذَا وَ كَذَا وَ ذَكَرَ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَهُ مِنْكَ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَدْ قُلْتُ ذَلِكَ فَقَالَ الْخَارِجِيُّ فَهَا أَنَا ذَا قَدْ جِئْتُكَ خَاطِباً فَقَالَ لَهُ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ( عليه السلام ) إِنَّكَ لَكُفْوٌ فِي دَمِكَ وَ حَسَبِكَ فِي قَوْمِكَ وَ لَكِنَّ اللَّهَ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ صَانَنَا عَنِ الصَّدَقَةِ وَ هِيَ أَوْسَاخُ أَيْدِي النَّاسِ فَنَكْرَهُ أَنْ نُشْرِكَ فِيمَا فَضَّلَنَا اللَّهُ بِهِ مَنْ لَمْ يَجْعَلِ اللَّهُ لَهُ مِثْلَ مَا جَعَلَ اللَّهُ لَنَا فَقَامَ الْخَارِجِيُّ وَ هُوَ يَقُولُ تَاللَّهِ مَا رَأَيْتُ رَجُلًا مِثْلَهُ قَطُّ رَدَّنِي وَ اللَّهِ أَقْبَحَ رَدٍّ وَ مَا خَرَجَ مِنْ قَوْلِ صَاحِبِهِ .
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Al Husayn Bin Al Hassan Al Hashimy, from Ibrahim Bin Is’haq Al Ahmar and Ali Bin Muhammad Bin Bundar, from Al Sayyari, from one of the Baghdadis, from Ali Bin Bilal who said, ‘Hisham Bin Al-Hakam met one of the foreigners, so he said, ‘O Hisham! What are you saying regarding the non-Arabs, are they allowed to marry among the Arabs?’ He said, ‘Yes’. He said, ‘So the Arabs can marry from Qureysh?’ He said, ‘Yes’. He said, ‘So the Qureysh can marry in the Clan of Hashim<sup>as</sup>?’ He said, ‘Yes’. He said, ‘From where did you take this?’ He said, ‘From Ja’far<sup>asws</sup> Bin Muhammad<sup>asws</sup>. I heard him<sup>asws</sup> saying: ‘Your blood is matching but your reproductive organs cannot?’ He (the narrator) said, ‘So the foreigner went out until he came over to Abu Abdullah<sup>asws</sup>, so he said, ‘I met Hisham, and I asked him about such, so he informed me with such and such, and he mentioned that he had heard it from you<sup>asws</sup>’. He<sup>asws</sup> said: ‘Yes, I<sup>asws</sup> have said that’. So the foreigner said, ‘So here I am with a marriage proposal’. So Abu Abdullah<sup>asws</sup> said to him: ‘You are a match regarding your blood, but your nobility among your people, but Allah<sup>azwj</sup> Mighty and Majestic Safeguarded us<sup>asws</sup> from the charity, and it is a dirt from the hands of the people. Thus, we<sup>asws</sup> abhor that we<sup>asws</sup> associate you in what Allah<sup>azwj</sup> has Preferred us<sup>asws</sup> with, (as you are) the one whom Allah<sup>azwj</sup> has not Made for you the like of what Allah<sup>azwj</sup> has Made for us’. So the foreigner arose and he was saying, ‘By Allah<sup>azwj</sup>! I have not seen a man like him<sup>asws</sup> at all! He<sup>asws</sup> repulsed me, by Allah<sup>azwj</sup>, with the ugliest of repulsions, but still without contradicting his<sup>asws</sup> companion’.
Compiled by Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ya'qub al-Kulayni
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