14. The passion opposite hereunto, whose signs are another distortion of the face with tears, called _weeping_, is the _sudden falling out with_ ourselves, or sudden conception of defect; and therefore _children_ weep often; for seeing they think that every thing ought to be given them which they desire, of necessity every repulse must be a check of their expectation, and puts them in mind of their too much weakness to make themselves masters of all they look for. For the same cause _women_ are more apt to weep than men, as being not only more accustomed to have their wills, but also to measure their powers by the power and love of others that protect them. Men are apt to weep that prosecute revenge, when the revenge is suddenly stopped or frustrated by the repentance of their adversary; and such are the tears of _reconciliation_. Also revengeful men are subject to this passion upon the beholding those men they pity, and suddenly remember they cannot help. Other weeping in men proceedeth for the most part from the same cause it proceedeth from in women and children. [Sidenote: Lust.] 15. The appetite which men call _lust_, and the fruition that appertaineth thereunto, is a _sensual_ pleasure, but _not only_ that; there is in it also a delight of the mind: for it consisteth of two appetites together, to _please_, and to _be pleased_; and the delight men take in delighting, is not sensual, but a pleasure or joy of the mind consisting in the imagination of the power they have so much to please. But the name _lust_ is used where it is condemned; otherwise it is called by the general word _love_: for the passion is one and the same indefinite desire of different sex, as natural as hunger. [Sidenote: Love.]