A Virginia Girl in the Civil War, 1861-1865: being a record of the actual experiences of the wife of a Confederate officer — John Locke — John Shaqi
A Virginia Girl in the Civil War, 1861-1865: being a record of the actual experiences of the wife of a Confederate officer
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If I had only been a young lady following my father or brother around,
how interesting these memoirs might be made, for Lieutenant Dimitri was
only one of many charming men I met. Available heroes pass through,
bow, and make their exits. And I am afraid of boring my friends with
the one hero who remains because he is my husband; consequently I keep
him as modestly as possible in the background. He had risen steadily
in rank, and I was proud of him, but I must say that my memory is less
vivid as to his deeds of gallantry than it is to what might have been
reckoned minor matters by an older woman. The greatest crosses of my
life were separation from my mother and sister, telling my husband
good-by, and beholding him in a hopelessly shabby uniform. The greatest
blessings of my life were found in the little courtesies and kindnesses
of life and in getting my husband back to me, safe and sound.
When morning came it was still raining, and the roads in such a
condition that Mr. McGuire, fearing our ambulance would break down,
opposed our going. But I knew that the men and team must return to camp
according to orders, so we started off in spite of the weather and Mr.
McGuire’s protest.
We had not gone far when our driver was halted by a vidette who barred
the way.
“Is Adjutant Grey’s wife in the ambulance?”
“Yessuh.”
“Turn back. Smallpox ahead.”
The driver turned another road. It was only a short distance before we
were halted again.
“Adjutant Grey’s wife in the ambulance?”
“Yessuh, she sho is.”
“Turn around. Smallpox this way.”
“Lord! how _is_ I ter go?” groaned the driver.
At the next fork the driver paused with a look of utter distraction.
“I don’t kyeer whicherway we go, dar’ll be smallpox in de road sayin’
we can’t go datter way.” And he drove recklessly on the way the mules
seemed to prefer. The mules struck it.
A vidette halted us again, but it was to say that we were traveling in
the right direction and to give minute directions for the rest of our
journey. There was a village and its neighborhood to be avoided, and we
had to make a wide detour before the driver put us down, according to
orders, at Mr. Wright’s.
Dan came in quite soon, looking as shabby as one of his own orderlies,
but glad enough to see me. For some time here I was in a fool’s
paradise in spite of the war and the fact that mother was far away in
Baltimore, ignorant of what might be happening to us, for camp was
very near, there were no active hostilities, and Dan came to see me
every day.