The Emperor Marcus Aurelius : $b A study in ideals — Marcus Aurelius — John Shaqi
The Emperor Marcus Aurelius : $b A study in ideals
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All through life it was his lot to consort with persons having sadly
different views from his own on the meaning of existence, the value
of virtue; yet he was kind and sociable with all. In this he did but
follow the example of the gods: “They are not vexed because, during so
long a time, they must tolerate men, such as they are, and so many of
them bad; and besides this they also take care of them in all ways. But
thou, who art destined to end so soon, art thou wearied of enduring
the bad, and this, too, when thou art one of them?” This tolerance
towards the failings of others had its source in his peculiar gospel of
resignation:--or should we say, fatalism? “That is good for each thing
which the universal nature brings to each. And it is for its good at
the time when nature brings it. ‘The earth loves the shower,’ and ‘the
solemn æther loves,’ and the Universe loves to make whatever is about
to be. I say then to the Universe: ‘I love as thou lovest.’” In this
spirit he bore the trials of his domestic, as of his public, life; keen
griefs coming from without and from within; and the keenest of all for
one of his affectionate nature were those of his own household.
Apollonius had taught him “to be always the same in sharp pains, and on
the occasion of the loss of a child and in long illness.” He learnt
the theory of indifference to natural affection; but, fortunately,
never the practice. The severe light of Stoicism was softened and
suffused in passing through the medium of his gentle nature; he trusted
the reasons of the heart, more than those of the pure intellect. If
Stoic cosmopolitanism would have him care for men in inverse proportion
to their nearness to him, he must depart from type in this. To his
wife Faustina, to his children, to his tutor Fronto and to Fronto’s
children, especially “little Gratia,” he was genuinely devoted.