Are Parents People? — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Are Parents People?
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Lita was to be allowed to see him occasionally. To write? No, they
decided, after talking it over, that letters would be a mistake.
The point was, Mrs. Hazlitt explained, that the child must be left
perfectly free to change her mind. This might be just a fancy for the
first man who had asked her to marry him. Mrs. Hazlitt supposed it was
the first. Next winter Lita might meet a dozen men she preferred. She
had a sudden idea: Perhaps it would be wiser if the girl did go to
Italy with her father, to get her out of the way for a few months.
"I'm afraid you'd miss her dreadfully."
"I should cry all summer, but it doesn't matter."
"There's nothing that I can see to prevent your going to Italy
yourself."
"It's not usual to go junketing about Europe with your divorced
husband," she answered.
"It need not be known that we went together; we might meet by
accident," said Mr. Hazlitt, at which his former wife laughed a little
and said it sounded to her like a very improper suggestion, and he
looked serious and blank and monumental.
The Italian trip was left in abeyance, but the other details were
settled in a clear and definite manner. Dacer was to come to the
house once a month, never to write; and there were to be no flowers
or presents, or mention of an engagement. Certainly not! They parted
gravely, like people who had had their last long talk.
But this campaign, like many others, worked better in theory than in
effect. Dacer came the next morning, and again in the afternoon, and
then again the next morning. Mrs. Hazlitt protested. She said three
times in twenty-four hours was not occasionally. Dacer only laughed
and said it seemed very occasional to him. The situation was made more
difficult for her, too, by the fact that she really liked Dacer, and
he and Lita were so friendly and seemed to value her company so much
that she enjoyed herself with them more than was consistent in a stern,
relentless parent. Besides, in old days she had told Lita a great many
clever things she had accomplished in the management of her own parents
when she had been first engaged; and Lita, horrible child, remembered
every word, and would repeat them all to Dacer in her mother's presence.
Finding herself helpless, the second morning she telephoned to Hazlitt.
She said she thought it was almost impossible to forbid a man the house
partially; it ought to be one thing or the other.
Hazlitt said, "Let it be the other then; don't let the fellow come at
all."
Hearing a note of pitiable weakness in her voice, he offered to come in
himself.
He came that afternoon about three--an excellent time, for Lita was
upstairs and Dacer was occupied with office hours. Mrs. Hazlitt sent
Freebody to ask her daughter to come down, while she apologized to her
former husband for troubling him again.
"But the fact is," she said, "turning a young man out of the
house--that really is a father's job."
"Even if it isn't the father's house?"