Are Parents People? — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Are Parents People?
John Stuart Mill · en
"Perhaps a little bit. I know what you mean," answered his former wife;
and then, as he laughed at this reply, she saw that it was funny, and
she began to laugh too. But laughter was too much for her strained
nerves, and as she laughed she also cried, and the most convenient
place to cry on was Hazlitt's shoulder. They clung together, feeling
their feet slipping on the brink of that unfathomable abyss--the
younger generation.
THE AMERICAN HUSBAND
Princesses are usually practical people, but we Americans, whose ideas
of princesses are founded rather on fairy tales than on history, allow
ourselves to be shocked and surprised when we discover this trait in
them.
The Princess di Sangatano was practical; she was noble, dignified,
unselfish, patient, subtle, still extremely handsome at thirty-nine,
and--or but--practical. She had just married her young daughter
excellently. She had not done this, however, by sitting still and
being dignified and noble. She had done it by going pleasantly to the
houses of women whom she disliked; by flattering men in whom even her
subtlety found few subjects for flattery; by indorsing the policy of a
cardinal, of whose policy as a matter of fact she disapproved. Nor did
she feel that her conduct in this respect was open to criticism. On
the contrary, there was nothing which the princess viewed with a more
satisfactory sense of duty done than the marriage of her daughter.
And now she was beginning to recognize that her son must be launched
by similar methods. The launching of Raimundo was something of a
problem. He had much to recommend him; he was good-looking, gay and
sweet-tempered; he loved his mother, and was not naughtier than other
boys of his age; but he lacked the determined industry likely to make
him successful. It was impossible to consider a learned profession
for him, and even for diplomacy, in which the princess could
easily have found him a place, Raimundo was a little too impulsive.
And so his mother, working it out, came to the conclusion that a
business--a business that would like to own a young prince and would
need Raimundo's knowledge of Italians and Italy--would be the best
chance; and so, of course, she thought of America--her native land.
Yes, though few people remembered the fact, the princess had been born
in the United States. She had left it as a small child, her mother
having remarried--an Italian--and she had been brought up in Italy
thenceforth. By circumstance and environment, by marriage and religion
and choice, she had become utterly an Italian. She betrayed this by
her belief that America--commercial America--would respect and desire
a prince. And hardly had she reached this conclusion when she met
Charlotte Haines.