Femina, A Work for Every Woman — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Femina, A Work for Every Woman
John Stuart Mill · en
If, instead of all this false and demoralizing philosophy, termed
“woman’s rights”—which is more appropriately designated “woman’s
wrongs”—we turn the thoughts and ambitions of women towards domestic
economy and domestic virtue, which alone should be and ever will be the
_ideal_ of noble womanhood, there will be, then, much less disease,
more happiness, and less discontent. There is enough on God’s earth
for all of his children to eat, wear, and work, if the labor and the
subsistence are fairly and wisely apportioned.
The growing sentiment, which is as vicious as it is absurd, is that a
girl, to be educated or accomplished, must be either a teacher, lawyer,
or doctor, or anything else except an accomplished housekeeper, just
as though it required less talent or ability to raise a child, cook a
wholesome or digestible meal, and cut or sew a garment.
Why, there is much more thought and judgment required in making an
angel mother than in administering or prescribing a dose of medicine
and filing a legal brief, and there is not a lawyer or doctor who has
given sufficient thought to the duties and requirements of maternity
who disputes it for a moment. If our strong-minded women would preach
this doctrine, which would tend to make household duties respectable,
they would be benefactors instead of mischief makers, and then our
comely girls would prefer to cultivate habits of domesticity, which
should and would become as honorable an occupation as that of a
doctoress or lawyeress.
Improprieties of dress are to be found in excessive or deficient
clothing, in an improper adjustment, and in an inherent defect of the
undergarments. I will reserve some of my views on these questions, for
the chapter that is devoted to hygienic measures. In the main, the
custom or manner of dressing women in Christian countries does not
deserve that sweeping denunciation that some radical dress reformers
make. I would not, if I could, change the very becoming and graceful
modern female dress, for it possesses the merit of displaying the
beauties of the figure in a modestly delicate manner, and it hides its
defects from the vulgar gaze.