Femina, A Work for Every Woman — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Femina, A Work for Every Woman
John Stuart Mill · en
Another fruitful source of disease of women, in this country and to
an alarming extent in Europe, to which the elder Martin of Berlin
called the attention of the profession over thirty years ago, is the
specific or gonorrhœal infection of wives by their unfaithful husbands.
The number of poor women whose health has been irretrievably ruined,
by their husbands having had illicit relations with lewd, diseased
women, is only known to those who have made this class of diseases a
special object of inquiry. I have nothing to do with the moral aspect
of this question, but only with the physical suffering that such men
inflict upon their innocent wives and the mothers of their children,
for the brief indulgence of libidinous pleasure. To think that any
man would take the chances of making his wife a suffering and perhaps
incurable invalid, just for the purpose of gratifying temporary animal
passions, is to place him beneath the brute creation, which has not the
intelligence to reason on the fearful consequences. No man who has
been guilty of illicit relations should return to his wife until seven
days have elapsed, and even not then until he has repeatedly washed
himself by means of a syringe with some cleansing or disinfecting
fluid, like borax water, or, what is preferable, a weak solution of the
bichloride of mercury.
The wife and mother who entertains the slightest suspicion, must insist
upon these precautions, and then not neglect to thoroughly wash and
cleanse herself in the manner previously referred to. It is the height
of hypocrisy to be mealy mouthed on this subject; the wives and mothers
who are fortunate to have husbands beyond suspicion, should learn
that some of their sisters have dangers to encounter and heartaches
to suffer, with which their own lives are not marred, but perhaps the
lives of their daughters may be; for the unhappy woman who becomes the
wife of the blear-eyed sensualist, there is only one relief, and that
is education in these subjects.
I know of no disease in which a correct and early diagnosis or
recognition is of greater importance to avoid the frightful consequence
and serious complications, than this one. It begins with a mild vaginal
catarrh, which, when it is as yet locally confined to the vagina, can
be easily cured. In course of time it spreads itself along the vaginal
tract to the cavity of the womb. When it gets there, the treatment
becomes more complicated, and for this reason; in order to reach the
disease now, the cavity of the womb must be dilated, and this is an
operation which the average physician can only accomplish in a bungling
and imperfect manner. But even in this stage of the disease, in the
hands of a skillful physician, the course of the disease can be checked
and the patient readily cured. When the disease gets beyond the womb,
when it invades the Fallopian tubes and the ovaries, the picture has
entirely changed.