"I believe it is now generally agreed among those who know best
that the practice of sewing has been carried much too far for
health, even in houses where there is no poverty or pressure of
any kind. No one can well be more fond of sewing than I am, and
few, except professional seamstresses, have done more of it, and
my testimony is that it is a most hurtful occupation, except where
great moderation is observed. I think it is not so much the
sitting and stooping posture as the incessant monotonous action
and position of the arms that causes such wear and tear. Whatever
it may be, there is something in prolonged sewing which is
remarkably exhausting to the strength, and irritating beyond
endurance to the nerves. The censorious gossip, during sewing,
which was the bane of our youth," she adds, "wasted more of our
precious youthful powers and dispositions than any repentance and
amendment in after life could repair."
Harriet's reading for pleasure in childhood had mostly to be done by
snatches. She learned much poetry by keeping the book under her work,
on her lap, and glancing at a line now and another then. Shakespeare
she first enjoyed, while a child, by stealing away from table in the
evenings of one winter, and reading by the light of the drawing-room
fire, while the rest lingered over dessert in the dining-room. In this
way, too, she had to read the newspaper.
The older she grew, the less time was afforded her from domestic
duties for study. She was sent, at the age of fourteen, to a
boarding-school near Bristol, kept by an aunt of her own, where she
stayed fifteen months, and on her return home her education was
considered finished. Thenceforth it was a struggle to obtain
permission to spend any time in reading or writing, and such
opportunities as she got, or could make, had to be taken advantage of
in secrecy.
It is melancholy to read of her "spending a frightful amount of time
in sewing," and being "expected always to sit down in the parlor to
sew," instead of studying; of her being "at the work-table regularly
after breakfast, making my own clothes or the shirts of the household,
or about some fancy work, or if ever I shut myself into my own room
for an hour of solitude, I knew it was at the risk of being sent for
to join the sewing-circle;" and of the necessity that she lay under to
find time for study by stealing secret hours from sleep. But it is
needful to lay stress upon these hindrances through which the growing
girl fought her way to mental development. Wide though her knowledge
was, great though her mental powers became, who can tell how much was
taken from her possibilities (as from those of all other great women
of the past) by such waste of her powers in childhood and youth?