Letters to the young from the Old World : $b Notes of travel — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Letters to the young from the Old World : $b Notes of travel
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There was quite a company gathered together at one farmhouse, and we
were among the number. When mealtime came not all of the people could be
seated around the table, for it was too small, so eight of the number
took places and the rest waited to eat at the second table. There was no
nice white tablecloth to be seen, and not a fine display of nice dishes
either; no silverware decorated that table, and, indeed, the whole house
seemed void of an unnecessary thing.
But I’m going to tell you about the meal, so will pass by a description
of the house and its furniture. On the table were a plate of black bread,
a small dish of butter, and two earthen dishes filled with milk. The
dishes were placed at the ends of the table, so that four persons could
have easy access to them when the dipping-in time came. There were knives
and spoons, but not enough to go around. Now what was to be done? Well,
they were used a while by some, then passed on to be used by those who
had none. We were strangers in the company, therefore the favored ones,
so had the happy privilege of having a spoon all to ourselves. Now they
were not of silver, as you might suppose, but bone. They were short in
the handle and large in the bowl. Just look at your mother’s kitchen
spoons and I think the size will correspond very well with the bone ones
we used.
Instead of having bread and milk, which most of the boys and girls
like, we took the milk first, dipping into the earthen dish and placing
the milk in the mouth spoonful by spoonful; and then we ate the bread
afterward. Now that was no style of our own, for we followed the example
of those around us, and the custom seemed indeed a very strange one. When
the slices of black bread were gone, and the dishes of milk emptied, all
stopped eating and thanks were returned to the Father above who provides
so liberally. After this all retired from the table. We were not made
comfortable by sitting on sofas and easy chairs. Oh no; but instead of
that we had the privilege of standing until those at the second table
were through eating, and even then we had the pleasure of being seated
upon narrow benches, or possibly on an uncomfortable chair.
Those people had a novel way of cleaning the spoons used in eating. I
noticed with astonishment that after each person had finished the milk,
and needed the spoon no longer, he took the bowl of the spoon between
the thumb and fingers of the left hand, wiping it clean; after which
the spoon was put away, to be used sometime in the future. Now, little
girls,—you who do not fancy washing dishes, and especially spoons,—you
must not adopt this method of cleaning them. But probably you will think
about it as I do,—that the custom is not a nice one, and hardly worth
following.