Life of Frederick Courtenay Selous, D.S.O., Capt. 25th Royal Fusiliers — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Life of Frederick Courtenay Selous, D.S.O., Capt. 25th Royal Fusiliers
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"My mother was an exceptionally thoughtful and broad-minded
woman--more advanced, on most subjects, than where they stand
now--a vivid and vital being, of great vivacity, gladness (that
never was levity) and conversational powers, with a gift for the
interchange of ideas (which is not, by any means, always the
same thing). She was also a poet, as her little volume of
collected pieces, 'Words without Music' (a modest title)
testifies, at least to myself. She had joyous 'L'Allegro'-like
country instincts, a deep inborn love of the beauties of nature
(which she sketched charmingly), and great feeling for, and
interest in both plant and animal _life_. I underline that word,
in its last connection, because killing was quite another thing
for her, and her whole soul shrank away from it. But of course,
as you know, what, in root and origin, may be the same, is often
differentiated in the sexes, and so inherited by each. It was, I
think, undoubtedly through our mother (though he did not,
personally, much resemble either parent) that my brother
inherited everything that made him distinctively himself. By
this I mean that though much and that the best--as, for
instance, his patriotism and love of truth--may have come to him
from both sides, and some from the other only, it was that one
that gave to it, and the whole, its original life-shaping turn.
The whole was included in the blood of the Bruces of
Clackmannan, representative, I believe, of the elder branch of
the family that gave Robert Bruce to the throne of Scotland, but
what exact position, in our family tree, is occupied by Bruce,
the Abyssinian explorer, I do not quite know. However, he must
have been some sort of ancestor of my brother, and Bruce, since
the intermingling, has been a family name, though not given to
any of us surviving infancy, owing to an idea which had arisen,
through several instances of such association, that it had
become unlucky. In this regard, it has been rather the
patronymic, which, from one war to another, has borne the
malevolent influence. None have come back, either wounded,
invalided or at all. All killed outright--but this by the way.
Had it not been for my mother, therefore, my brother, in all
probability, would either never, or not in any preponderating
degree, have felt the 'call of the wild,' for my father not only
never felt it, but never was able to comprehend the feeling.
There was, in fact, nothing at all in him of what was my
brother's life and being. He was, in the proper evolutionary
sense of the word, essentially a civilized man and a Londoner.
Sport was, for him, an unknown (and much disliked) quantity, and
though taking, in an air-tight-compartment sort of way, some
interest in insects, he had not much about him of the real
naturalist.