Life of Frederick Courtenay Selous, D.S.O., Capt. 25th Royal Fusiliers — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Life of Frederick Courtenay Selous, D.S.O., Capt. 25th Royal Fusiliers
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"We lived in Gloucester Road, Regent's Park, in a house my
father built for himself. At that time there were no other
houses near, but all fields between his home and Primrose Hill,
some way off; but this superior state of things his children
never knew. Our uncles, my father's brothers, lived on either
side of us. My father was vice-Chairman of the Stock Exchange
for five years, and Chairman for three, until a very serious
illness obliged him to resign and give up everything in the way
of work. He was a fine chess player, his name is to be seen in
the games amongst those of the great players of the day. He was
also a very fine clarionet player, which instrument he taught
himself when very young, and I well remember his beautiful tone,
far beyond that of Lazarus, the chief professional player of the
day, who no doubt sacrificed tone to technique. Whenever there
was a speech to be made my father was equal to the occasion,
having great fluency and humour and real wit. He was a
delightful talker and his memory was a store-house of knowledge
and recollections that he could draw upon whenever required. He
was a very genial and admirable host, very high-spirited and
excitable. He could never forget the Revocation of the Edict of
Nantes, when the Huguenots, his forebears, were driven from
France. 'They turned us out! They turned us out!' he used to say
to my mother, a real thought of bitterness to him. His greatest
pleasure and relaxation was a walking-tour in Switzerland, a
land he specially loved. He had often been there with one or
other of his brothers, or with his great friend Baron Bramwell,
the famous judge. These trips must have been ideal, my father
and his brothers having in themselves everything that was
necessary to make them gifted in all the arts, and so
appreciative of nature and everything else, and with their
lively sense of humour and wide interests they were able to
extract the most from all they might chance upon in their
travels, those being the days before tourists flooded the
country and huge hotels swamped the more interesting inns. My
father loved the busy life of the City, and had no country
tastes such as farming or hunting, but he delighted in the life
by the river--in canoeing, specially--and in a farmer's country
home in the Isle of Wight, where, when we were children, we
spent the summers. He was a fine swimmer and would swim out with
one or other of us on his back. I well remember his energy,
mental and physical, were remarkable. The loss of sight seemed
only to affect his later years. His mind was clear and equal to
dealing with his affairs to the last. At a very advanced age he
had started tricycling and delighted in it. I think my father
and my brother Fred were very dissimilar in character, interests
and tastes.