Making the Most of Life — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Making the Most of Life
John Stuart Mill · en
Not only are the spiritual things the best things, but many times the
spiritual things can be grasped only by letting go and losing out of
our hands the earthly things we would love to keep. God loves us too
much to grant our prayers for comfort and relief, even when we make
them, if he can do it only at spiritual loss to us. He would rather
let it be hard for us to live if there is blessing in the hardness,
than make it easy for us at the cost of the blessing.
There are certain singing-birds that never learn to sing until their
cages are darkened. Would it be true kindness to keep these birds
always in the sunshine? There are human hearts that never learn to
sing the song of faith and peace and love, until they enter the
darkness of trial. Would it be true love for these if God would hear
their prayers for the removal of their pain? We dare not plead,
therefore, save with utmost diffidence and submission, that God would
remove the cross of suffering.
"Thou canst not tell
How rich a dowry sorrow gives the soul,
How firm a faith and eagle-sight of God."
Does God answer prayers? "I have been praying for one thing for
years," says one, "and it has not come yet." God has many ways of
answering. Sometimes he delays that he may give a better, fuller
answer. A poor woman stood at a vineyard gate, and looked over into
the vineyard. "Would you like some grapes?" asked the proprietor, who
was within. "I should be very thankful," replied the woman. "Then
bring your basket." Quickly the basket was brought to the gate and
passed in. The owner took it and was gone a long time among the vines,
till the woman became discouraged, thinking he was not coming again.
At last he returned with the basket heaped full. "I have made you wait
a good while," he said, "but you know the longer you have to wait, the
better grapes and the more."
So it sometimes is in prayer. We bring our empty vessel to God and
pass it over the gate of prayer to him. He seems to be delaying a long
time, and sometimes faith faints with waiting. But at last he comes,
and our basket is heaped full with luscious blessings. He waited long
that he might bring us a better and a fuller answer. At least we are
sure that no true prayer ever really goes unanswered. We have to wait
for the fruits to ripen, and that takes time.
Then sometimes God delays until some work in us is finished, some
preparation which is needed before the best answer can be received.
The following words are suggestive:
"Unanswered yet, the prayer your lips have pleaded
In agony of heart these many years?
Does faith begin to fail? Is hope departing,
And think you all in vain those falling tears?
Say not the Father hath not heard your prayer;
You shall have your desire sometime, somewhere.