Making the Most of Life — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Making the Most of Life
John Stuart Mill · en
Perhaps in thinking of what God does for the world, we are too apt to
overlook the human agents and instruments, and to think of him touching
lives directly and immediately. A friend of ours is in sorrow, and,
going to our knees, we pray God to give him comfort. But may it not be
that he would send the comfort through our own heart and lips? One we
love is not doing well, is drifting away from a true life, is in danger
of being lost. In anguish of heart we cry to God, beseeching him to
lay his hand on the imperilled life, and rescue it. But may it not be
that ours is the hand that must be stretched out in love, and laid, in
Christ's name, on the life that is in danger?
Certain it is, at least, that each one of us who knows the love of
Christ is ordained to be as Christ to others; that is, to be the
messenger to carry to them the gift of Christ's grace and help, and to
show to them the spirit of Christ, the patience, gentleness,
thoughtfulness, love, and yearning of Christ. We are taught to say,
"Christ liveth in me." If this be true, Christ would love others
through us, and our touch must be to others as the very touch of Christ
himself. Every Christian ought to be, in his human measure, a new
incarnation of the Christ, so that people shall say: "He interprets
Christ to me. He comforts me in my sorrow as Christ himself would do
if he were to come and sit down beside me. He is hopeful and patient
as Christ would be if he were to return and take me as his disciple."
But before we can be in the place of Christ to sorrowing, suffering,
and struggling ones, we must have the mind in us that was in him. When
St. Paul said, "The love of Christ constraineth me," he meant that he
had the very love of Christ in him--the love that loved even the most
unlovely, that helped even the most unworthy, that was gentle and
affectionate even to the most loathsome. We are never ready to do good
in the world, in the truest sense or in any large measure, until we
have become thus filled with the very spirit of Christ. We may help
people in a certain way without loving them. We may render them
services of a certain kind, benefiting them externally or temporally.
We may put material gifts into their hands, build them houses, purchase
clothing for them, carry them bread, or improve their circumstances and
condition. We may thus do many things for them without having in our
heart any love for them, anything better than common philanthropy. But
the highest and most real help we can give them only through loving
them.