Making the Most of Life — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Making the Most of Life
John Stuart Mill · en
We cannot minister while heart-fever of any kind is on us. We may go
on with our work, but we cannot do it well, and there will be little
blessing in it. Discontent hinders any life's usefulness. Jesus loved
Martha, and accepted her service because he knew she loved him; but he
plainly told her that her feverishness was not beautiful, and that it
detracted from the worth and the full acceptableness of the good work
she did; and he pointed her to Mary's quiet peace as a better way of
living and serving. Anxiety of any kind unfits us in some degree for
work. It is only when Christ comes and lays his hand upon our heart,
and cures its fever, that we are ready for ministering in his name in
the most efficient way.
There is a little story of a busy woman's life which illustrates this
lesson. She was the mother of a large family, and, being in plain
circumstances, was required to do her own work. Sometimes, in the
multiplicity of her tasks and cares, she lost the sweetness of her
peace, and, like Martha, became troubled and worried with her much
serving. One morning she had been unusually hurried, and things had
not gone smoothly. She had breakfast to get for her family, her
husband to care for as he hasted away early to his work, and her
children to make ready for school. There were other household duties
which filled the poor, weak woman's hands, until her strength was
well-nigh utterly exhausted. And she had not gone through it all that
morning in a sweet, peaceful way. She had allowed herself to lose her
patience, and to grow fretful, vexed, and unhappy. She had spoken
quick, hasty, petulant words to her husband and her children. Her
heart had been in a fever of irritation and disquiet all the morning.
When the children were gone, and the pressing tasks were finished, and
the house was all quiet, the tired woman crept upstairs to her own
room. She was greatly discouraged. She felt that her morning had been
a most unsatisfactory one; that she had sadly failed in her duty; that
she had grieved her Master by her want of patience and gentleness, and
had hurt her children's lives by her fretfulness and her ill-tempered
words. Shutting her door, she took up her Bible and read the story of
the healing of the sick woman: "He touched her hand, and the fever left
her; and she arose and ministered unto them."
"Ah!" said she, "if I could have had that touch before I began my
morning's work, the fever would have left me, and I should have been
prepared to minister sweetly and peacefully to my family." She had
learned that she needed the touch of Christ to make her ready for
beautiful and gentle service.