Personal Friendships of Jesus — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Personal Friendships of Jesus
John Stuart Mill · en
So much for the friendship of John for Jesus. On several occasions we
find evidences of very warm friendship in Jesus for John. John's
imprisonment was a most pathetic episode in his life. It came from his
fidelity as a preacher of righteousness. In view of all the
circumstances, we can scarcely wonder that in his dreary prison he
began almost to doubt, certainly to question, whether Jesus were indeed
the Messiah. But it must be noted that even in this painful experience
John was loyal to Jesus. When the question arose in his mind, he sent
directly to Jesus to have it answered. If only all in whose minds
spiritual doubts or questions arise would do this, good, and not evil,
would result in every case; for Christ always knows how to reassure
perplexed faith.
It was after the visit of the messengers from John that Jesus spoke the
strong words which showed his warm friendship for his forerunner. John
had not forfeited his place in the Master's heart by his temporary
doubting. Jesus knew that his disciples might think disparagingly of
John because he had sent the messengers with the question; and as soon
as they were gone he began to speak about John, and to speak about him
in terms of highest praise. It is an evidence of true friendship that
one speaks well of one's friend behind his back. Some professed
friendship will not stand this test. But Jesus spoke not a word of
censure concerning John after the failure of his faith. On the other
hand, he eulogized him in a most remarkable way. He spoke of his
stability and firmness; John was not a reed shaken with the wind, he
was not a self-indulgent man, courting ease and loving luxury; he was a
man ready for any self-denial and hardship. Jesus added to this eulogy
of John's qualities as a man, the statement that no greater soul than
his had ever been born in this world. This was high praise indeed. It
illustrates the loyalty of Jesus to the friend who had so honored him
and was suffering now because of faithfulness to truth and duty.
There is another incident which shows how much Jesus loved John. It
was after the foul murder of the Baptist. The record is very brief.
The friends of the dead prophet gathered in the prison, and, taking up
the headless body of their master, they carried it away to a reverent,
tearful burial. Then they went and told Jesus. The narrative says,
"When Jesus heard of it, he departed thence by ship into a desert place
apart." His sorrow at the tragic death of his faithful friend made him
wish to be alone. When the Jews saw Jesus weeping beside the grave of
Lazarus they said, "Behold how he loved him!" No mention is made of
tears when Jesus heard of the death of John; but he immediately sought
to break away from the crowds, to be alone, and there is little doubt
that when he was alone he wept. He loved John, and grieved over his
death.