Personal Friendships of Jesus — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Personal Friendships of Jesus
John Stuart Mill · en
By thy last silence in the judgment hall,
By long foreknowledge of the deadly tree,
By darkness, by the wormwood and the gall,
I pray thee visit me.
JEAN INGELOW.
There is a natural tendency to think of Jesus as different from other
men in the human element of his personality. Our adoration of him as
our divine Lord makes it seem almost sacrilege to place his humanity in
the ordinary rank with that of other men. It seems to us that life
could not have meant the same to him that it means to us. It is
difficult for us to conceive of him as learning in childhood as other
children have to learn. We find ourselves fancying that he must always
have known how to read and write and speak. We think of the
experiences of his youth and young manhood as altogether unlike those
of any other boy or young man in the village where he grew up. This
same feeling leads us to think of his temptation as so different from
what temptation is to other men as to be really no temptation at all.
So we are apt to think of all the human life of Jesus as being in some
way lifted up out of the rank of ordinary experiences. We do not
conceive of him as having the same struggles that we have in meeting
trial, in enduring injury and wrong, in learning obedience, patience,
meekness, submission, trust, and cheerfulness. We conceive of his
friendships as somehow different from other men's. We feel that in
some mysterious way his human life was supported and sustained by the
deity that dwelt in him, and that he was exempt from all ordinary
limiting conditions of humanity.
There is no doubt that with many people this feeling of reverence has
been in the way of the truest understanding of Jesus, and ofttimes
those who have clung most devoutly to a belief in his deity have missed
much of the comfort which comes from a proper comprehension of his
humanity.
Yet the story of Jesus as told in the Gospels furnishes no ground for
any confusion on the subject of his human life. It represents him as
subject to all ordinary human conditions excepting sin. He began life
as every infant begins, in feebleness and ignorance; and there is no
hint of any precocious development. He learned as every child must
learn. The lessons were not gotten easily or without diligent study.
He played as other boys did, and with them. The more we think of the
youth of Jesus as in no marked way unlike that of those among whom he
lived, the truer will our thought of him be.