Progress and Achievements of the Colored People: Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success
John Stuart Mill · en
_Do Not Be a Spendthrift_
The man who squanders his hard earned money is an enemy to himself.
By squandering money is meant expending it for something you do not need
and which is of no value, use, or merit.
“A penny saved is a penny earned” is a well known saying, also “Take
care of the pence and the pounds will take care of themselves.”
Don’t imagine it looks big when a young man is with his companions and
throws his money right and left. Does he gain their respect? Never. They
look upon him as a fool and while they are willing to take advantage of
his “liberality,” it will always be noticed that they never reciprocate.
They are wiser than he.
It is not necessary to be a miser either, for that is the other extreme
and equally as reprehensible.
No man should live on crusts and hoard away his money for some public
administrator to find and spend in fees when he is dead.
Neither can a man waste his money and expect to have any left for the
rainy day that always comes to every mortal. Such a man says when he is
too old to earn money, and is kicked about from pillar to post without
friends or companions: “If I had only saved my money when I was young, I
might be a rich man now.” That is quite true, but you wasted your money
and you have reached the end of your chapter in life.
What do you want money for anyway? You can live on bread and water.
There is a great question in this idea. We have needs; we have rights to
be observed, to marry, to be decent, to live in healthy places, raise a
family and educate them. All these things make a man, an American
citizen, and if you throw away the money to make you these things, then
you can not become any of them. In that case you are—nothing. Do you
aspire to be a nonentity?
DON’T BE A KICKER OR A KNOCKER
If a man keeps on complaining about things in general and particular, he
will soon be thrown out of decent society.
Grievances and troubles come to every man in this world, and every man
knows it without constantly repeating it. He has his own troubles, and
does not care to be saddled with yours.
This is a good old earth if you would take off your blue spectacles and
look at it with your own eyes.
Some men are so dissatisfied with things that there is no pleasing them,
but if you attempt to take from them the things that do not satisfy or
please, they set up a roar.
When there is a wrong to be righted, some right to be protected, it is
well enough to complain, but there are numerous persons who go about
complaining all the time. When it is not one thing it is another.
These persons are given the name of “kickers,” and when they keep it up
they are deemed “chronic kickers.”
It is sometimes impossible to pass these people by, lest a really
suffering brother human be denied help. But they become known, and
should be avoided for the sake of one’s peace of mind.