Progress and Achievements of the Colored People: Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success
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The strong man will bear his troubles in silence, but the weak one
whines about them and fancies they are the worst.
If you stop to consider how this earth would get along without you, and
that it did without you a long time, perhaps you would quit kicking and
give others a rest from your complaints.
A little kicking may be useful, but too much of it lands a man outside
the reach of opportunity.
A GOOD WOMAN THE GLORY OF MAN
Man’s Best Friend and Counselor
When God created Adam, it was found that he had no helpmeet, so woman
was created to be his companion.
St. Paul says: “The woman is the glory of man,” and still farther
elaborating the idea of the helpmeet says: “Neither is the man without
the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord.”
That is as much as saying that the man and the woman must stand side by
side in this world as companions and helpmeets toward the glory of the
Lord.
The Holy Scripture is full of allusions to good women. Thus: “A virtuous
woman is a crown to her husband,” 2 Prov. 12, 4. “Her price is above
rubies,” Prov. 31, 10. “Dorcas: this woman was full of good works and
almsdeeds which she did.”
As the mother of the Christ, woman, in the person of the Virgin Mary,
has been put upon a high pedestal for a pattern and a model to all good
women.
Her part in the world may be well explained by the words of the orator:
“The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world.”
The greatest deference and respect is the due of every woman, since she
is the mother of the race, and its guardian and protector when in the
helpless period of infancy.
The most beautiful and unanswerable tribute to women is paid by King
Lemuel in the words of the prophecy that his mother taught him. It is to
be found in Proverbs 31, and includes the entire chapter of 31 verses.
EDUCATE YOUR CHILDREN
It can not be doubted that education is the father and mother of
opportunity and success in life.
You may know this from your own deficiencies, therefore, give those
belonging to you a chance at opportunity and success by educating them.
You bring helpless beings into the world; you see them growing up amid
modern surroundings that demand education, and it can not be possible
that you will permit them to become weeds in the human garden—useless
incumbrances to be thrown out upon the garbage heap.
It is the right of your children to be educated to fit some sphere in
life. They are yours, and look to you to aid them. Besides, whatever you
do to educate your children must redound to your own advantage.
Some people are jealous because their children know more than their
parents. If your mind runs that way you come within the condemnation:
“He that provideth not for those of his own household hath denied the
faith; he is the companion of the destroyer.”
Think this over and let it sink into your mind.