Progress and Achievements of the Colored People: Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Progress and Achievements of the Colored People: Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success
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It is always interesting to watch children at play; more so when they
are playing “house” or some other amusement relative to home life. Have
you not noticed how the little girl will assume the manner and actions
of her own mother? Supposedly, the “dolly” has been taken suddenly ill
and the doctor has been sent for. It is a most critical case and the
little boy who is playing doctor will knit and pucker up his brow and
will imitate the solemnity and dignity of the professional man most
vividly. He even tries to make his voice lower and gruffer in tone, so
as to make the “doctor” more real. Yes, children in their play are prime
representatives of realities and are often good teachers in some
respects, for they are not only good imitators but good observers.
CHILD’S FUTURE MOLDED BY EXAMPLE
Everything to a child is a model of manner, of gesture, of speech, of
habit, of character. Let these models be of the highest type. If we
would have fine characters we must necessarily present before children
fine models. The model the child constantly has in his mind’s eye is the
mother. She it is through the example she provides who sets the standard
for the child’s future. The child comes into the world with its plastic
mind open to all impressions and these it receives and retains by
outside forces. It is a very poor plan to take children to a theatre.
They cannot help but hear and see things which will cause them often to
imitate, and which may result in disaster.
A true story is told of a boy, ten years old, who was taken by his
mother to see a show. During the play the audience was treated to an
exciting domestic quarrel on the stage. One of the characters, a young
boy, was supposed to protect his mother by shooting an intruder. The boy
was applauded by the audience, which plainly showed they considered him
a hero. Henry, for this was the boy’s name who was witnessing the play,
was carried away with all that he saw and decided that he, too, would
deal likewise to anyone who would harm his mother. Some weeks later a
peddler came to his mother’s house and insisted that she buy some of his
wares. She told him she didn’t care for any, but the peddler’s voice was
rather loud and he seemed very persistent. Henry, hearing it all,
thought the time had come to imitate the actor’s bravery. He turned to a
drawer, took his father’s pistol and without one moment’s reflection
shot the peddler, but, fortunately, did not kill him. This plainly shows
what imitation in the young mind can lead to.
Example is far better than precept. In the face of bad example, the best
of precepts are of little use. Can you expect a child who constantly
sees before him ignorance, coarseness and selfishness, to grow up
anything more than the reflection of these faults?