Windmills: A book of fables — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Windmills: A book of fables
John Stuart Mill · en
“There are some,” said Siebenhaar, “who regard women as a disease, a
kind of fungoid distortion of the human form. But only the very lowest
species are hermaphrodite, and the higher seem to be split up into
male and female for the purpose of reproduction without temporary
loss of efficiency in the task of procuring food. The share of the
male in the act of reproduction is soon over, and among the wisest
inhabitants of the globe the male is destroyed as soon as his share is
performed. Human beings are not very wise: they have an exaggerated
idea of their importance; and they are reluctant to destroy the life of
their kind except in occasional outbursts of organised homicide such
as that on which we are now engaged. The share of the female entails
the devotion of many months, during which she needs the protection of
the male, whom, for that reason, and also because she hopes to repeat
the performance, she retains by every art at her disposal. Hence has
arisen the institution of marriage, which pledges the male to the
protection of the female and their offspring. Whether a moral principle
is engaged in this institution is a question upon which philosophers
cannot agree. It is therefore left out of most systems of philosophy.
Mine is based on my answer to it, which is that there is no moral
principle engaged. Morality is for the few who are capable of it. Few
men have the capacity for ideas, but all men love women, except a
few miserable degenerates, who prefer a substitute. There is no idea
in marriage. It is an expedient. Sensible communities admit of open
relief from it; in duller communities relief has to be sought in the
byways. And still no moral principle is engaged. It is a matter only
of supplying the necessities of human nature. Now, love is a different
affair altogether. Love is an idea, a direct inspiration. It alone
can transcend the tyranny of the internal organs and lead a man not
only to perceive his limitations but within them to create beauty, and
creative a man must be directly he becomes aware of the heat of love in
the heart of a woman. There is no other such purging fire, none that
can so illuminate the dark places of the world or so concentrate and
distil such lightness as there is. All evil, I have said, comes from
congestion; to release the good a purge is necessary, and there is no
purge like woman. Therefore, madam, I do most solemnly charge you to
tend the fire of love in your heart. Never again will you find a man so
sensible to its warmth--(most men can see no difference between love
and indigestion)--Oh, madam, discard all thoughts of marriage, which is
an expedient of prudence, which is cowardice, of modesty, which is a
lure, of innocence, which in an adult female is a lie, to the winds, do
exactly as you feel inclined to do, and love. Madam ----”
But by this Arabella was asleep. She had sunk back against George, her
lovely tresses lay upon his shoulder, and her hand clasped his.