But do you know what makes this moderation so painful to the
generality of men? It is the difficulty of supporting it with
propriety. It is the necessity they lie under of never impeaching it
by an unworthy action: for if the fear of doing ill does not restrain
men in one case, why should it in another, where that restraint may be
attributed to a more natural motive? Hence, it is plain, it does not
proceed from virtue, but cowardice; and it is with justice that such
scruples are laughed at, as appear only in cases of danger. Have you
not observed that persons, captious and ready to affront others, are,
for the most part, bad men, who, for fear of having the contempt in
which they are universally held publicly exposed, endeavour to screen,
by some _honourable_ quarrels, the infamy of their lives? Is it for
you to imitate such wretches as these? Let us set aside men of a
military profession, who fell their blood for pay, and who, unwilling
to be degraded from their rank, calculate from their interest what
they owe to their honour, and know to a shilling the value of their
lives. Let us, my friend, leave these gentlemen to their fighting.
Nothing is less honourable than that honour about which they make such
a noise; and which is nothing more than an absurd custom, a false
imitation of virtue, which prides itself in the greatest crimes. Your
honour is not in the power of another: it depends on yourself, and not
on the opinion of the world; its defence is neither in the sword nor
the buckler, but in a life of integrity and virtue; a proof of greater
courage than to brave death in a duel.----