Eloisa : $b or, A series of original letters — Jean-Jacques Rousseau — John Shaqi
Eloisa : $b or, A series of original letters
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He began by exclaiming violently, but in general terms, against such
mothers as indiscreetly invite to their houses young fellows without
family or fortune, whose acquaintance only brings shame and scandal on
those who cultivate it. Finding this not sufficient to draw an answer
from an intimidated woman, he brought up particularly, as an example,
what had passed in our own house, since she had introduced a pretended
wit, an empty chatterer, more fit to debauch the mind of a modest
young woman than to instruct her in any thing that is good.
My mother, who now saw she should get little by holding her tongue,
took him up at the word debauch, and asked what he had ever seen in
the conduct, or knew of the character of the person he spoke of, to
authorize such base suspicions. I did not conceive, she added, that
genius and merit were to be excluded from society. To whom, pray,
would you have your house open, if fine talents and good behaviour
have no pretensions to admittance? To our equals, Madam, he replied in
a fury; to such as might repair the honour of a daughter if they
should injure it. No, sir, said she, but rather to people of virtue
who cannot injure it. Know, Madam, that the presumption of soliciting
an alliance with my family, without a title to that honour, is highly
injurious. So far from thinking it injurious, returned my mother, I
think it, on the contrary, the highest mark of esteem: but, I know not
that the person you exclaim against has made any such pretensions. He
has done it, Madam, and will do worse, if I do not take proper care to
prevent him; but, for the future, I shall take upon myself the charge
you have executed so ill.
On this began a dangerous altercation between them; by which I found
they were both ignorant of those reports, which you say have been
spread about the town. During this time your unworthy cousin could,
nevertheless, have wished herself buried a hundred feet in the earth.
Think of the best and most abused of mothers lavishing encomiums on
her guilty daughter, and praising her for all those virtues she has
lost, in the most respectful, or rather to me the most mortifying
terms. Think of an angry father, profuse of injurious expressions; and
yet in the height of his indignation, not letting one escape him in
the least reflecting on the prudence of her, who, torn by remorse and
humbled with shame, could hardly support his presence.