Have you never observed, my dear, how much every one who knows you is
attached to your person?----That a father or mother should be fond of
an only daughter, is not at all surprizing; that an amorous youth
should be inflamed by a lovely object is also as little extraordinary;
but that, at an age of sedateness and maturity, a man of so cold a
disposition as Mr. Wolmar should be so taken with you at first sight;
that a whole family should be unanimous to idolize you; that you
should be as much the darling of a man so little affectionate as my
father, and perhaps more so than any of his own children; that
friends, acquaintance, domestics, neighbours, that the inhabitants of
a whole town, should unanimously join in admiring and respecting you;
this, my dear, is a concurrence of circumstances more extraordinary;
and which could not have happened, did you not possess something
peculiarly engaging. Do you know, Eloisa, what this something is? It
is neither your beauty, your wit, your affability, nor any thing that
is understood by the talent of pleasing: but it is that tenderness of
heart, that sweetness of disposition, that has no equal; it is the
talent of loving others, my dear, that makes you so universally
beloved. Every other charm may be withstood, but benevolence is
irresistible; and there is no method so sure to obtain the love of
others as that of having an affection for them. There are a thousand
women more beautiful; many are as agreeable; but you alone possess,
with all that is agreeable, that seducing charm, which not only
pleases, but affects, and ravishes every heart. It is easily perceived
that yours requests only to be accepted, and the delightful sympathy
it pants after flies to reward it in turn.