Eloisa : $b or, A series of original letters — Jean-Jacques Rousseau — John Shaqi
Eloisa : $b or, A series of original letters
Jean-Jacques Rousseau · en
Yet this authority implies neither attachment nor esteem, but merely
politeness and compliance with custom; for it is as essential to
French gallantry to despise the women as to oblige them; and this
contempt is taken as a proof, that a man has seen enough of the world
to know the sex. Whoever treats them with respect is deemed a novice,
a knight-errant, one who has known woman only in romances. They judge
so equitably of themselves, that to honour them is to forfeit their
esteem; so that the principal requisite in a man of gallantry is
superlative impertinence.
Let the ladies of this country pretend what they will, they are, in
spite of themselves, extremely good-natured. All men who are burthened
with a multiplicity of affairs, are difficult of access, and without
commiseration; and in Paris, the center of business of one of the most
considerable nations in Europe, the men of consequence are
particularly obdurate: those, therefore, who have any thing to ask,
naturally apply to the ladies, whose ears are never shut against the
unhappy; they console and serve them. In the midst of all their
frivolous dissipation, they do not scruple to steal a few moments from
their pleasure, and devote them to acts of benevolence; and though
there may be some women mean enough to make an infamous traffic of
their services, there are hundreds, on the contrary, who are daily
employed in charitably assisting the distressed. However, it must be
confessed, that they are sometimes so indiscreet, as to ruin an
unfortunate man they happen not to know, in order to serve their own
friend. But how is it possible to know every body in so extensive a
country? or how can more be expected from good-nature destitute of
real virtue, whose sublimest effort is not so much to do good, as to
avoid evil? After all, it must be allowed that their inclinations are
not naturally bad; that they do a great deal of good; that they do it
from their hearts; that they alone preserve the remains of humanity,
which are still to be found in Paris; and that without them, we should
see the men avaricious and insatiable, like wolves devouring each
other.
I should have remained ignorant of all this, if I had not consulted
their comedies and romances, whose authors are, perhaps, too apt to
stumble upon those foibles from which they themselves are not exempt,
rather than the virtues they happen not to possess; who, instead of
encouraging their readers by praising their real virtues, amuse
themselves with painting imaginary characters too perfect for
imitation.
Romances are perhaps the last vehicle of instruction that can be
administered to a corrupt people. It were to be wished that none were
suffered to prepare this medicine but men of honest principles and
true sensibility; authors, whose writings should be a picture of their
own hearts; who, instead of fixing virtue in the heavens, beyond the
reach of our nature, would, by smoothing the way, insensibly tempt us
out of the gulph of vice.