thing that can throw real light upon their true character, taste or
maxims? and is it not strange, that in describing the women of a
country, a man of sense should omit what regards their domestic
concerns and education of their children? [38] the only circumstance
in that letter characteristic of its author, is the apparent
satisfaction with which you commend the goodness of their natural
disposition, which, I must confess, doth honour to yours. And yet,
what have you done more in that than barely justice to the sex in
general? for in what country are not gentleness of manners and
compassion for the distressed, the amiable qualities of the women?
What a difference had there been in the picture, if you had described
what you had seen, rather than what you had heard; or, at least, if
you had only consulted people of sense and solidity on the occasion?
was it for you, who have taken so much pains to cultivate your genius,
to throw away your time deliberately in the company of a parcel of
inconsiderate young fellows, who take pleasure in the society of
persons of virtue and understanding, not to imitate, but only to
seduce and corrupt them. You lay a stress on the equality of age, with
which you should have nothing to do, and forgot that of sense and
knowledge, which is more peculiarly essential. In spite of your
violent passions, you are certainly the most pliable man in the world;
and, notwithstanding the ripeness of your judgment, permit yourself to
be conducted so implicitly by those you converse with, that you cannot
keep company with young people of your own age without condescending
to become a mere infant in their hands. Thus you mistake in your
choice of proper companions, and demean yourself in not fixing upon
such as have more understanding than yourself.
I do not reproach you with having been inadvertently taken into a
dishonest house; but with having been conducted thither by a party of
young officers, who ought never to have known you; or at least, whom
you should never have permitted to direct your amusements. With
respect to your project of making them converts to your own
principles, I discover in it more zeal than prudence; if you are of
too serious a turn to be their companion, you are too young to be
their tutor, and you ought not to think of reforming others till there
is nothing left to reform in yourself.