This does not imply that their interests are to be opposed or that they
are to have absolutely separate purses. It does mean that there must be
a clear understanding on both sides of what the expenditure is to be
for certain purposes and that the funds for food, domestic service, and
other strictly housekeeping outlay should be in the hands of the wife.
This point has been much debated and the pros and cons on both sides
exploited. Some men argue that the possession of ready money will
lead the wife to extravagance, that it is far better to have all
articles charged and the bills paid by the husband, that women do
not understand household accounts or bookkeeping. Enough foolish and
shallow women exist to lend a trifling force to this position. But the
general and growing view is that the housekeeper upon whom is laid
the responsibility of purveying for an establishment rises to the
emergency, that she does better work and makes wiser purchases when
she is trusted with an allowance for such expenses, that an exhaustive
knowledge of double-entry bookkeeping is not demanded for simple
domestic accounts, that even the immature and untrained wife gains
knowledge by experience and competence by errors made and corrected.
Certain disbursements seem naturally to devolve upon the man of the
house. That he should pay the rent, defray outside or general repairs,
perhaps meet the coal bill, appears a matter of course. But it is
unquestionably the province of the wife to buy provisions and pay for
them, either in cash or by weekly or monthly accounts. Charges for
work done in the house, the replacement of cooking utensils, household
linen and the like, the bills for gas and electric light, all should be
within her control, to be settled by her as they fall due, after she
has examined them and convinced herself that they are correct.
If other arrangement is made than this, it should be after careful
consideration and unbiased discussion of the advantages and demerits of
the system. As a general thing such a division as that just suggested
proves the best.
Exactly what proportion of the income shall be placed in the hands of
the wife is a matter which must be decided by individual circumstances.
Estimate has already been made as to the allowance to be given to
food, and it can readily be seen that this must be determined by
the character and size of the family as well as by the conditions
surrounding them. The household of a farmer or of one who commands a
garden and dairy can be kept on a much smaller pecuniary expenditure
for actual food than is possible in the home of a dweller in the city,
who must buy and pay for every particle of food which comes into the
house. The sum disbursed may amount to the same thing in the long
run, since the cost of keeping up the garden plot or caring for the
cattle must be met by the man of the house, but he will not need to
give as much cash into his wife’s hands as will be required in other
circumstances.
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