Her interest in the Woman’s Movement had brought her into touch with all
sorts of radicals and shortly after her arrival in Cincinnati she had
met Herr Grun, a German Anarchist refugee. The friendship had grown
into a beautiful love relationship which had lasted until his death.
Ann had accepted all the libertarian dogmas of her foster father. It
seemed very wonderful to me to hear her speak about her "home." It was
a barren enough word to me. But to her it meant a wealth of affection,
a place of sure sympathy. I listened with sad and bitter envy to her
stories of childhood. The loving kindness, the happy harmony which she
had known at home, she had been taught to believe resulted from the free
relationship between her mother and her lover. Ann had grown up in an
atmosphere where free love was the conventional thing.
Persecution is the surest way of convincing a heretic that he is right.
I have known a good many Anarchists and the most striking thing about
them is their community interest. Whether or not they are seriously
offensive towards society, they are all in a close defensive alliance
against it. The hostility they meet on every hand forces them to
associate with their own kind. Ann had grown up among the children of
comrades.
To them love is an entirely personal, individual matter. The
interference of the Church or State they regard as impertinent and
indecent. They take this whole business of sex more seriously, and in
some respects more sanely, than most of us. Their households, as far as
I have seen them, are very little different, no better nor worse than
the average home. Their advantage lies in the fact that most Anarchists
are of kindly nature and that they are seldom cursed with money grubbing
materialism. But this is a difference in the people, not in their
institutions.
Marriage, for Ann, would have been a repudiation of her up-bringing and
the people she loved, comparable to that of a daughter of a Baptist
minister who became a Catholic nun or the third wife of a Mormon Elder.
But Protestant women sometimes do marry Mormons or take the veil. And
Anarchists are no wiser in bending the twig so it will stay bent than
Baptists. If Ann had been this type of a woman, she might have kicked
over the traces, and have left her people to marry me, as carefully
reared daughters have done in similar crises since the world was young.
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