Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselvesSorabji, Cornelia
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Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselves
Sorabji, Cornelia
India -- Social conditions; Women -- India
It was but the day before that we had prayed for the soul of the Lady,
at thirteen altars of holy Ganges mud. Four of these altars were
arranged round a great central place of prayer, under an awning, to
which were four “Gateways.” At each gateway hung a looking-glass to
hold the shadow of the spirit.... Beside the awning stood a wooden
image of the dead, and to this was tethered a cow. So we bought for
her blessings. This was also the purpose of the final ritual--gifts
to Priests--silver vessels, beds with silken hangings, jewels of
gold, and precious stones;... for the apostles of the order, whole
travelling-kits--neat rolls of matting, drinking-gourds, umbrellas,
begging-bowls....
But, after all, it was in the Zenana that regret and longing were
prettiest rendered.... In the hour of Union (as we call the Twilight in
Bengal), when the glories of the West had died into silence, and earth
and sky were gray and still as life at the passing of a friend--she who
was now Maharani--my ten-year-old Bride, crept out on to the landing of
“the Inside” to sprinkle with holy water the place where soul and body
parted, and to light the death-light of welcome.
“She will come back, and know that we have not forgotten.”
It is interesting, the definite place in the scheme of life, allotted
to women in a country where woman is of no account, except as
hand-maid to her lord man. I am always finding illustration of this
truth. No spite, no resentment can rob individuals of the right to
perform certain religious acts. The death-light, for instance, was
the province of Boho-Rani, the daughter-in-law, the youngest in a
household including three generations, and many collaterals.... But
the most passionate love for the dead never suggested any variation
of etiquette. The old Mother bent with grief, sisters, daughters sat
huddled in the living-room, looking with hungry eyes at Boho, who alone
could relieve the tension of that quiet-coloured hour by service.
Now it is the turn of one, now of another, the women know; there is
no wrangling.... But a few days past there had been the Spring games,
and the Festival of the Spring. The children-wives swung to and fro
under the big tree in the women’s courtyard. It was a pretty sight--the
graceful little ladies in their bright draperies, clinging with their
toes to the board (for they swing standing), holding to the ropes with
tiny hands.... The sun peeped at them through the screen of leaves,
and set on fire the rough-cut jewels at throat, at wrist, at anklet.
To and fro, to and fro ... so rhythmic was the motion, I found myself
thinking of a field of grass, rippling in the wind. Some brides, too
small for the exercise, were gravely swinging their dolls, and here was
a “religious” fondling the baby Krishna in his cradle ... but none of
them played really: it was only--_Oberammergau_--how the god Krishna
grown to manhood sported with the maidens; that was the reason given by
all for the evening’s gaiety.
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