Desert and water gardens of the Red Sea : $b Being an account of the natives and the shore formations of the coastCrossland, Cyril
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Desert and water gardens of the Red Sea : $b Being an account of the natives and the shore formations of the coast
Crossland, Cyril
Coral reefs and islands; Red Sea; Sudan -- Social life and customs
“Oh yes, of course you don’t want her to marry a man who might
beat her.”
“No I don’t, for if he did it would be my business to beat him,
and I do not intend to have that bother put upon me,” brotherly
love being thus seen to have a practical side.
I know of few cases of legal polygamy and but one or two of
concubinage. One of the former cases is that of my oldest skipper,
a really good old man, whose one grief is that he remains childless
near the close of life.
Divorce was suggested in a case of persistent causeless desertion,
but the husband’s reply was, “I took her when she was such a
little thing, so I love her.”
In another case the woman is a hopeless imbecile. Relatives begged me
to fire a gun close to her head in the hope of awaking her senses,
which I declared useless and dangerous, and refused to do. “She
is my cousin, so I cannot divorce her,” said the husband, an
elderly man who shews her every kindness.
After some months of consultations, in which I shared and tried
to act as peacemaker, one case actually did lead to divorce, and
the lady was known as “the mother of Ali’s child” instead
of as Ali’s wife. In a few weeks, however, Ali came begging for
advance of wages. This being refused he entered into explanations,
“You see I am going to take my wife back. Being divorced, she
has had nothing to eat for a month, so now I must give her a good
feed.” This literal translation of his speech must evidently be
taken in the spirit, for the lady still lives.
Pecuniary questions are so intimately associated with all matters
of marriage and divorce that men’s actions must not be read as
though they indicated feelings only. In the same way the women’s
independence is not only due to their knowledge of their value as
women but also to the fact that the husband, if of the poorer class,
paid, say, six goats, a camel, and four pounds in cash for them,
besides providing for the wedding feast, this involving a debt
which will take him a year or two to pay off, sometimes many years.
Ibrahim’s story is a good illustration of the freedom of women,
which is often abused, and the subjection in which they keep their
men folk. It gives an instance also of the pagan devil worship
which is the real belief of these Muslim when faced by calamity.
Ibrahim is a simple kindly old man, one of four brothers, all of
whom have passed their lives upon the sea. They are old men now,
and their sons are sailors too. The portrait of one of the four is
on Plate X, and decrepit though he looks he still goes to sea in
his own boat, or rather canoe, taking the few goats which are his
wealth across to an island where a shower has fallen. There was
a touch of heroism when he came to me saying, “If you will give
me work as a sailor you will see I am quite strong still. I used
to be captain, but I cannot be that now as my eyes have gone dim,
but try me as a sailor.”
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