Beale, Dorothea, 1831-1906; Cheltenham Ladies' College -- History; Teachers -- England -- Biography
It was obviously impossible for one person to teach all these subjects
properly, and it is not surprising that Miss Beale soon wrote home that
she found the work hard; she does not seem to have complained of anything
else. She said, among other things, that she took eight Bible-classes
every week, two of which consisted of about fifty girls at a time. Her
father replied with the evident intention of bracing and cheering:—
‘Employment is a blessed state, it is to the body what sleep
is to the mind.... I cannot be sorry when I hear you are fully
employed. I am sure it will be usefully, and then by and bye
when the body and the mind alike have perished, and work and
sleep are no longer needed, but the soul shall burst into
existence, how shall we wonder at the willing slaves we have
been during our probation, for the meat which perishes. You see
I am thoughtful,—it is fit.... I feel I can bear your being
so far and so entirely away, with some philosophy, and I am
delighted that your letters bear the tone of contentment, and
that you have been taken notice of by people who seem disposed
to be kind to you.... You will see I have not a thing to
tell you, and I cannot now write any more about thick coming
fancies, but give an old man’s love to all your pupils, and may
they make their Fathers as happy as you do. God bless you, my
dear Dorothea.’
This letter was written in March 1857. Shortly after came another for her
birthday on the 21st, showing how much her absence from home was felt,
and that the parents were doubtful if she were in the right place.
‘God bless you and give you many happy birthdays. I fear the
present is not one of the most agreeable; it is spent at least
in the path of what you considered duty, and so will never be
looked back upon but with pleasure.... Do not, however, my
dear girl, think of remaining long in a position which may be
irksome to you, for thus I think it will hardly be profitable
to others, and indeed I question whether you would maintain
your health where the employment was so great and duty the only
stimulus to action. You have heard me often quote: “The hand’s
best sinew ever is the heart.”’
In May another letter is evidently called forth by some expression of a
longing to be at home, and perhaps by hints of difficulties from Dorothea.
‘_May 1857._
‘I think I feel the weeks go more slowly than you do. I long
to see you again very much. I cannot get reconciled to your
position and feel satisfied that it is your place.... God bless
you, my dear girl, and blunt your feelings for the rubs of the
world, and quicken your vision for the beautiful and unseen of
the world above us.’
The last words show how well her father knew the sensitive nature hurt
even by trifles, and prone to take small matters too seriously.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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