Habits and men, with remnants of record touching the makers of bothDoran, Dr. (John)
Philosophy
Habits and men, with remnants of record touching the makers of both
Doran, Dr. (John)
Manners and customs
The meetings of the lovers became known to the lady’s proud sire, and
terrible was the scene which ensued between the “père noble” and the
“ingénue.” The latter however promised to break off all intercourse,
provided she were permitted to take one last farewell. She waited a day
or two, till she was of age; and then, “instead of being under lock and
key in the country, walked downstairs, took her footman, said she was
going to breakfast with Lady Sarah, but would call at Miss Read’s; in the
street, pretended to recollect a particular cap in which she was to be
drawn; sent the footman back for it, whipped into a hackney chair, was
married at Covent Garden Church, and set out for Mr. O’Brien’s villa at
Dunstable.”
This marriage was, as I have said, thought worse of than if the
bridegroom had been a lacquey. The latter appear to have been in singular
esteem, dead or living. Thus we read that the Duchess of Douglas, in
1765, having lost a favourite footman rather suddenly in Paris, she had
him embalmed, and went to England, with the body of “Jeames” tied on in
front of her chaise. “A droll way of being chief mourner,” says Walpole,
who adds some droll things upon the English whom he encountered in
journeying through France. When half a mile from Amiens, he met a coach
and four with an equipage of French, and a lady in pea-green and silver,
a smart hat and feather, and two _suivantes_. “My reason told me,” says
the lively Horace, “it was the Archbishop’s concubine; but luckily my
heart whispered that it was Lady Mary Coke. I jumped out of my chaise,
fell on my knees, and said my first Ave Maria, gratiâ plena!”
The esteem of the ladies for their liveried servitors does not appear to
have been in all cases reciprocal, if we may believe a circumstance which
took place at Leicester House, the residence of the Prince of Wales, in
1743, when one of his Royal Highness’s coachmen, who used to drive the
maids of honour, was so sick of them, that he left his son three hundred
pounds upon condition that he never _married_ a maid of honour!
There was laxity both of manners and dress as time went on; and as we
were an ill-dressed, so were we an ill-washed people. In the latter half
of the last century we were distinguished as the only people in Europe
who sat down to dinner without “dressing” or washing of hands. Indeed we
were for a long time “not at all particular.”
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