Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
In children and in simple-minded adults, kindly feeling may be very
strong and yet very naïve, involving little insight into the emotional
states of others. A child who is extremely sociable, bubbling over with
joy in companionship, may yet show a total incomprehension of pain and a
scant regard for disapproval and punishment that does not take the form
of a cessation of intercourse. In other words, there is a sociability
that asks little from others except bodily presence and an occasional
sign of attention, and often learns to supply even these by imagination.
It seems nearly or quite independent of that power of interpretation
which is the starting-point of true sympathy. While both of my children
were extremely sociable, R. was not at all sympathetic in the sense of
having quick insight into others’ states of feeling.
Sociability in this simple form is an innocent, unself-conscious joy,
primary and unmoral, like all simple emotion. It may shine with full
brightness from the faces of idiots and imbeciles, where it sometimes
alternates with fear, rage, or lust. A visitor to an institution where
large numbers of these classes are collected will be impressed, as I
have been, with the fact that they are as a rule amply endowed with
those kindly impulses which some appear to look upon as almost the sole
requisite for human welfare. It is a singular and moving fact that there
is a class of cases, mostly women, I think, in whom kindly emotion is so
excitable as to be a frequent source of hysterical spasms, so that it
has to be discouraged by frowns and apparent harshness on the part of
those in charge. The chief difference between normal people and
imbeciles in this regard is that, while the former have more or less of
this simple kindliness in them, social emotion is also elaborately
compounded and worked up by the mind into an indefinite number of
complex passions and sentiments, corresponding to the relations and
functions of an intricate life.
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