Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
When left to themselves children continue the joys of sociability by
means of an imaginary playmate. Although all must have noticed this who
have observed children at all, only close and constant observation will
enable one to realize the extent to which it is carried on. It is not an
occasional practice, but, rather, a necessary form of thought, flowing
from a life in which personal communication is the chief interest and
social feeling the stream in which, like boats on a river, most other
feelings float. Some children appear to live in personal imaginations
almost from the first month; others occupy their minds in early infancy
mostly with solitary experiments upon blocks, cards, and other
impersonal objects, and their thoughts are doubtless filled with the
images of these. But, in either case, after a child learns to talk and
the social world in all its wonder and provocation opens on his mind, it
floods his imagination so that all his thoughts are conversations. He is
never alone. Sometimes the inaudible interlocutor is recognizable as the
image of a tangible playmate, sometimes he appears to be purely
imaginary. Of course each child has his own peculiarities. R., beginning
when about three years of age, almost invariably talked aloud while he
was playing alone—which, as he was a first child, was very often the
case. Most commonly he would use no form of address but “you,” and
perhaps had no definite person in mind. To listen to him was like
hearing one at the telephone; though occasionally he would give both
sides of the conversation. At times again he would be calling upon some
real name, Esyllt or Dorothy, or upon “Piggy,” a fanciful person of his
own invention. Every thought seemed to be spoken out. If his mother
called him he would say, “I’ve got to go in now.” Once when he slipped
down on the floor he was heard to say, “Did you tumble down? No. _I_
did.”
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