Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
It is worth noting here that there is no separation between real and
imaginary persons; indeed, to be imagined is to become real, in a social
sense, as I shall presently point out. An invisible person may easily be
more real to an imaginative mind than a visible one; sensible presence
is not necessarily a matter of the first importance. A person can be
real to us only in the degree in which we imagine an inner life which
exists in us, for the time being, and which we refer to him. The
sensible presence is important chiefly in stimulating us to do this. All
real persons are imaginary in this sense. If, however, we use imaginary
in the sense of illusory, an imagination not corresponding to fact, it
is easy to see that visible presence is no bar to illusion. Thus I meet
a stranger on the steamboat who corners me and tells me his private
history. I care nothing for it, and he half knows that I do not; he uses
me only as a lay figure to sustain the agreeable illusion of sympathy,
and is talking to an imaginary companion quite as he might if I were
elsewhere. So likewise good manners are largely a tribute to imaginary
companionship, a make believe of sympathy which it is agreeable to
accept as real, though we may know, when we think, that it is not. To
conceive a kindly and approving companion is something that one
involuntarily tries to do, in accordance with that instinctive
hedonizing inseparable from all wholesome mental processes, and to
assist in this by at least a seeming of friendly appreciation is
properly regarded as a part of good breeding. To be always sincere would
be brutally to destroy this pleasant and mostly harmless figment of the
imagination.
Thus the imaginary companionship which a child of three or four years so
naïvely creates and expresses, is something elementary and almost
omnipresent in the thought of a normal person. In fact, thought and
personal intercourse may be regarded as merely aspects of the same
thing: we call it personal intercourse when the suggestions that keep it
going are received through faces or other symbols present to the senses;
reflection when the personal suggestions come through memory and are
more elaborately worked over in thought. But both are mental, both are
personal. Personal images, as they are connected with nearly all our
higher thought in its inception, remain inseparable from it in memory.
The mind is not a hermit’s cell, but a place of hospitality and
intercourse. We have no higher life that is really apart from other
people. It is by imagining them that our personality is built up; to be
without the power of imagining them is to be a low-grade idiot; and in
the measure that a mind is lacking in this power it is degenerate. Apart
from this mental society there is no wisdom, no power, justice, or
right, no higher existence at all. The life of the mind is essentially a
life of intercourse.
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