In illustration of these remarks it is shown how the Chevalier
recommends a strict observation of the meagre days, upon the ground
that the dissevered head of a soldier was once enabled to call for a
priest, confess, and listen to the absolution, because the owner of the
head had never transgressed the Wednesday and Friday’s fasts throughout
his lifetime. Avoidance of the seven capital sins is enjoined upon
much the same grounds. Gluttony, for instance, is to be avoided, for
the good reason, that a prattling magpie once betrayed a lady who had
eaten a dish of eels, which her lord had intended for some guests whom
he wished particularly to honor. Charity is enjoined, not because the
practice thereof is placed by the great teacher, not merely above Hope,
but before Faith, but because a lady who, in spite of priestly warning,
gave the broken victuals of her household to her dogs rather than to
the poor, being on her death-bed, was leaped upon by a couple of black
dogs, and that these having approached her lips, the latter became as
black as a coal. The knight the more insists upon the proper exercise
of charity, seeing that he has unquestionable authority in support
of the truth of the story. That is, he knew a lady that had known
the defunct, and who said she had seen the dogs. Implicit obedience
of wives to husbands is insisted on, with a forcibly illustrative
argument. A burgher’s wife had answered her lord sharply, in place of
silently listening to reproof, and meekly obeying his command. The
husband, thereupon, dealt his wife a blow with his clenched fist,
which smashed her nose, and felled her to the ground. “It is reason
and right,” says the mailed Mrs. Ellis of his time, “that the husband
should have the word of command, and it is an honor to the good wife
to hear him, and hold her peace, and leave all high talking to her
lord; and so, on the contrary, it is a great shame to hear a woman
strive with her husband, _whether right or wrong_, and especially
before other people.” Publius Syrus says, that a good wife commands by
obeying, but the Chevalier evidently had no idea of illustrating the
Latin maxim, or recommending the end which it contemplates. The knight
places the husband as absolute lord; and his doing so, in conjunction
with the servility which he demands on the part of the wife, reminds
me of the saying of Toulotte, which is as true as anything enjoined
by the moralizing knight, namely, that “_L’obéissance aux volontés
d’un chef absolu assimile l’homme à la brute_.” This, with a verbal
alteration, may be applied as expressive of the effect of the knight’s
teaching in the matter of feminine obedience. The latter is indeed in
consonance with the old heathen ideas. Euripides asserts, that the most
intolerable wife in the world is a wife who philosophizes, or supports
her own opinion. We are astonished to find a Christian knight thus
agreed with a heathen poet--particularly as it was in Christian times
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