Discussion of contraception has been active in the last decade or
so; but curiously enough its significance aside from contributing
to directly saner ways of life[1] has been little realized. Birth
control makes possible such clear-cut distinctions between mating and
parenthood that it might be expected to produce radical changes in
theories of sex attitude or relationship, forcing the discard of many
an argument for personal suppression for the good of children or the
honor of the family, and forcing redefinition of concepts of honor
and sincerity between the sexes. In such redefinition reciprocity in
passion, emotional integrity, and mutual enhancement of life might
share in the approval once confined to constancy, fidelity, and duty,
virtues that are obviously suggested by the hit or miss system of
mating and reproducing our social organization has favored. With little
or no self-knowledge or knowledge of men, a girl often marries in
order to find out how much she cares or whether or not she qualifies,
and then when her experience has but begun she finds herself an
expectant mother, and maternity begins to supersede other interests.
She may become a parent without the assurance of being well-mated, if
not, more tragically, with the certainty of being mismated. Advocates
of the monogamous family would do well to consider how essential to
an enduring union, at least in our society, experience in love may
be, together with restraint from child-bearing before experience is
achieved.
That neither such considerations nor other changes in the theory of sex
morality have yet come to the fore in current discussion is perhaps
because the technique of contraception is still in the experimental
stage, perhaps because in popular consciousness the morality of
contraception in itself is not fully established. How is it going
to be established? I doubt if through rationalism or rationalistic
propaganda. Social changes, we begin to know, are rarely due to
deliberation, in any society. In our society they are due mainly to
economic causes. Housing congestion in New York will in time affect
birth-control legislation in Albany; and fear of an overpopulated
world will drive church as well as state into a new attitude toward
multiplying to the glory of God.
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