Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
We must face the facts. We are not meant to grow up in a state of
nature. There is something simple, conclusive, even idyllic, in the
statement that so-and-so is “natural.” What more would you have? Jean
Jacques Rousseau preached the doctrine of natural education, and no
reformer has had a greater following. “It’s human nature,” we say, when
stormy Harry snatches his drum from Jack; when baby Marjorie, who is
not two, screams for Susie’s doll. So it is, and for that very reason
it must be dealt with early. Even Marjorie must be taught better. “I
always finish teaching my children obedience before they are one year
old,” said a wise mother; and any who know the nature of children, and
the possibilities open to the educator, will say, Why not? Obedience
in the first year, and all the virtues of the good life as the years
go on; every year with its own definite work to show in the training
of character. Is Edward a selfish child when his fifth birthday comes?
The fact is noted in his parents’ year-book, with the resolve that by
his sixth birthday he shall, please God, be a generous child. Here, the
reader who has not realised that to exercise discipline is one of the
chief functions of parenthood, smiles and talks about “human nature”
with all the air of an unanswerable argument.
But we live in a redeemed world, and one of the meanings which that
unfathomable phrase bears is, that it is the duty of those who have the
care of childhood to eradicate each vulgar and hateful trait, to plant
and foster the precious fruits of that kingdom in the children who have
been delivered from the kingdom of nature into the kingdom of grace;
that is to say, all children born into this redeemed world. The parent
who believes that the possibilities of virtuous training are unlimited
will set to work with cheerful confidence, will forego the twaddle
about “Nature,” whether as lovely in itself or as an irresistible
force, and will perceive that the first function of the parent is
that function of _discipline_ which is so cheerfully made over to the
schoolmaster.
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