Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
Or, Mary is a butterfly of a child, never constant for five minutes
to anything she has in hand. “That child is just like me!” says her
mother; “but time will steady her.” Fanny, again, sings herself to
sleep with the Sicilian Vesper Hymn (her nurse’s lullaby) before she is
able to speak. “It’s strange how an ear for music runs in our family!”
is the comment, but no particular pains are taken to develop the talent.
Another child asks odd questions, is inclined to make little jokes
about sacred things, to call his father “Tom,” and, generally, to show
a want of reverence. His parents are earnest-minded people--think with
pain of the loose opinions of Uncle Harry, and decide on a policy
of repression. “Do as you’re bid, and make no remarks,” becomes the
child’s rule of life, until he finds outlets little suspected at home.
In another case, common thought is much more on a level with the
science of the day; there is a tendency to lung-trouble: the doctors
undertake to deal with the tendency so long as the _habit_ of delicacy
is not set up. The necessary precautions are taken, and there is no
reason why the child should not die at a good old age.
Once more;--there are parents who are aware of the advance science has
made in education, but doubt the lawfulness of looking to science for
aid in the making of character. They see hereditary defects in their
children, but set them down as of “the natural fault and corruption of
the nature of every man which naturally is engendered of the offspring
of Adam.” This, they believe, it is not their part to remedy; that is,
unless the boy’s fault be of a disturbing kind--a violent temper, for
example--when the mother thinks no harm to whip the offending Adam out
of him. But so surely as we believe the laws of the spiritual life to
have been revealed to us, so, not less, surely, though without the
same sanctity, have been revealed the laws by which body, mind, and
moral nature flourish or decay. These it behoves us to make ourselves
acquainted with; and the Christian parent who is shy of science, and
prefers to bring up his children by the light of Nature when that of
authoritative revelation fails, does so to his children’s irreparable
loss.
If the race is advancing, it is along the lines of character, for each
new generation inherits and adds to the best that has gone before
it. We should have to-day the very flower and fruit that has been
a-preparing through long lines of progenitors. Children have always
been lovely, so far back as that day when a little child in the streets
of Jerusalem was picked up and set in the midst to show of what sort
are the princes in the Kingdom to come:--
“In the Kingdom are the children--
You may read it in their eyes;
All the freedom of the Kingdom
In their careless humour lies.”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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