Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“That well by reason it men callen may
The daïsie, or else the eye of day.”
Let him feel that the common words we use without a thought are
beautiful, full of story and interest. It is a great thing that the
child should get the _ideas_ proper to the qualities inherent in him.
An idea fitly put is taken in without effort, and, once in, ideas
behave like living creatures--they feed, grow, and multiply. Next,
provide him with some one delightful change of thought, that is, with
work and ideas altogether apart from his bent for languages. Let him
know, with friendly intimacy, every out-of-door object that comes in
his way--the red-start, the rose-chaffer, the ways of the caddis-worm,
forest trees, field flowers--all natural objects, common and curious,
near his home. No other knowledge is so delightful; not natural
science, but common acquaintance with natural objects.
Or, again, some one remarks that all our great inventors have in their
youth handled material--clay, wood, iron, brass, pigments. Let him work
in material. To provide a child with delightful resources on lines
opposed to his natural bent is the one way of keeping a quite sane mind
in the presence of an absorbing pursuit.
At the same time, change of occupation is not rest: if a man ply a
machine, now with his foot, and now with his hand, the foot or the
hand rests, but the man does not. A game of romps (better, so far as
mere rest goes, than games with laws and competitions), nonsense talk,
a fairy tale, or to lie on his back in the sunshine, should rest the
child, and of such as these he should have his fill.
This, speaking broadly, is the _rationale_ of the matter:--just as
actually as we sew or write through the instrumentality of the hand, so
the child learns, thinks, feels, by means of a material organ--the very
delicate nervous tissue of the cerebrum. Now this tissue is constantly
and rapidly wearing away. The more it is used, whether in the way of
mental effort or emotional excitement, the more it wears away. Happily,
rapid new growth replaces the waste, wherefore, work and consequent
waste of tissue are necessary. But let the waste get ahead of the
gain, and lasting mischief happens. Therefore never let the child’s
brain-work exceed his chances of reparation, whether such work come in
the way of too hard lessons, or of the excitement attending childish
dissipations. Another plea for abundant rest:--one thing at a time, and
that done well, appears to be Nature’s rule; and his hours of rest and
play are the hours of the child’s physical growth--witness the stunted
appearance of children who are allowed to live in a whirl of small
excitements.
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